Do you try to help?

[gmoney]

There are many times when Jubbers come here looking for advice on something and I see more often than not, nothing but judgemental attacks! Personally, I find this place a refuge from the stress of day to day shit and the opportunity to converse with other gays in a way I haven't found to do in my daily life. Sometimes it's me looking for advice. I hope we all can put aside our differences and help our fellow man when he comes here expecting his own kind not to judge, ridicule or belittle.

 

[The_Reaper]

I do try...If I know something about the problem.

If not, I let someone more experienced make a comment about it.


And in some situtations, it's alright to judge. IF you see a post asking how to seduce a straight guy...Well, that's not advice that we need to be giving out.

 

[M4P]

I will offer advice or share from my own personal experience. If I don't have an answer - I don't reply. If the request is from someone I don't care for - I ignore it. I try hard to treat JUB as a kinder and gentler part of the world

 

[confusedboy23]

I often try my best but I wouldn't say my advice are all that great!

 

[Leidian]

I would hope that my responses have been helpful to a JUBber or two. People have been nice enough to respond to my threads, so I try to pay it forward.

If I don't like the original question for some reason I just skip the thread, though.

 

[gmoney]

I just share my thoughts on whatever issue some one might bring up. I would be flattered if anyone has ever took anything I said into consideration, but I would not expect anyone to.

Well, be flattered, then. I seek out your posts and I think you have a good head on your shoulders, and I like what you have to say.

 

[_AJ_]

if someone need help and i can help then i will but i dont really have that much experiance on alot of topics but iam not going to be a dick about something

 

[eddielee]

I try to be compassionate and help JUB'rs with problems. Many people on JUB helped me and I'm very grateful. Sometimes I have nothing more to offer than a comforting word, but that may be all a person needs.

 

[trawler69]

I only offer advice if I have experienc of the situation for which help is requested. I try to keep it positve and always read the whole thread first to see what others have said and whether thier advice is better than mine, if so I don't post. It would be nice to think it helped but I somehow doubt it, I will persevere in case it does.

 

[cocktales]

I try, since I'm some what older than the rest of the people here, I have lived through some pretty awful experiences and I would NOT want anyone to do it, "IF" my tale could stop them!

I'm NOT always right; but I give the person the right to accept/decline my advice and NOT hurt either way if they do/do not try it...

I love all you JUBBERS and want to help anyone who needs it!

Really!

 

[Lefty]

gosh guys,
thats what i've always thought it was for.
did i hurt someones feelings?

 

[twardmo]

if i think i have good advice then i'll share it, i never judge, but i'm probably not the type of person to take advice from.

 

[bedbugy]

been there done that fell for this and that
yes if it helps
knowledge isn't cheap
education is expensive
it costs to learn
it's free to help

 

[teh_nathan]

I do try to help if I can.

 

[GL]

I offer up my advice and opinions because I've received a lot of good stuff in the past. Guys like JR come to mind. I guess it's my way of paying it forward.

 

[Swellegant]

I never judge... I critique.

But certainly I try to be helpful, even when someone's pissed me off and I have to use strong language and red emoticons. And I think the most helpful thing I've ever done is to remember that I don't always know best... I always give advice with the caveat that I am occasionally wrong.