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Does age matter?

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So does love have any boundaries? I am a 24 year old guy who is not like most guys. I am mature for my age, I care a lot about how other people feel, and I am looking for a long term relationship. I am not interested in hook-ups. I want a life partner. I met this guy online and we have talked every day for about a week and we can talk for hours about anything. So far he appears to be the perfect relationship. Like me, he does not drink, does not smoke or have any tattoos. We both have what most call traditional morals and values. He told me he would be good to me. He is 56. That is a vast age difference. He told me that love has no boundaries. I am having a slight issue with the age. I want someone to grow old with, someone to experience new things with me that is both new for him and me. You know just basic things like, what’s it like to turn 40, what are the 30’s like. He has already done a lot of things that I have not yet got to experience. I am just hopping on the train called life and he has already ridden it.

So I am not sure what to do. We do have a chemistry there be that for a relationship or a friendship; I don’t know. I do know that we need to meet first just to see if anything more is there. I know that he is ready for a relationship. He thinks I am hot, and a great guy, which is just what, he has been looking for. I am still pondering the age issue and waiting to meet him. So my question is does age matter and why? Thanks.
 
Age matters only if it matters to you.

By which I mean that there is no steadfast rule that says you can't date a 56yo guy. If you want to pursue a relationship with him, then age shouldn't be a problem. If, however, you feel that is is a problem, you should keep it a close friendship. Either way is a valid choice.
 
I know a couple that is 30 yrs different in age & to see them together they were meant to be together!!
 
panda29 said:
I know a couple that is 30 yrs different in age & to see them together they were meant to be together!!
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You could be describing my own relationship!

Age is only a number.

And who knows how many years any two have together.

Even those of the same age may lose a partner through disease or accident....
 
You imply that this is a long-distance relationship (met online and talk everyday on the phone). That might be more of a impediment that your age difference.

I don't think age differences matter at all to many guys and I, myself, know many couples who are 20-30-40 years apart. They have the perfect relationship for them.

Good luck to you and I hope this turns into something good!
 
63 & 32 here!
I have found that age does matter here in the USA, but as much in other parts of the world.

I met my, (now), husband online and it has been a long distance growing relationship for the past 2+ years!

In the beginning, he had not even considered having a relationship with someone my age, but it worked out better than he ever thought possible...for the both of us.

Like you he is very mature for his age. He may have not have experienced as much as me, but we are experiencing new things together every day.

We like the same music, the same style of clothing, same foods, the same movies. We like to go to the disco...the list is endless.

Love and relationships is limited in how the both of you handle it and what you want in life. Both of you have something to offer one another. if you go into this with an open mind, who knows what the outcome will be.

Either one of you could leave this planet at any time for any reasons. Your 56 year old man could be here for another 30 years! So you can't think in that way.

My man and I have a wonderful life together. Neither of us have any regrets on starting our relationship.

I truly hope that you meet your man and it is all that the both of you hope for and want. You both have something to give one another. The most important thing to share is love!
 
Give it a try my boyfriend who adores me is 32 I'm 60 and we have been together in everything work rest and play for over 3yrs and having a ball.
 
It does matter in the end. not saying you can't be with someone much older, but its exponentially more difficult.
 
The age difference only matters if you have and issue with it but otherwise if you don't he could be the one for you. Just remember to get to know him and learn what you like about him but also be conscious of the things you do not like about him and can you accept the things you don't like because believe me there is something wrong with all of us you have to make the decision are they minor things you can overlook. Take the time to get to know him well enough to be aware of the good the bad and the ugly because if you are unable to distinguish what the things are that you do not like you don't know each other well enough.
 
As long as it's all legal lol.

If you're both compatible, then we not date? As long as it's true and one of you isn't dating the other for money, or look, but for your genuine love for your partner :)
 
Well, age matters in a given phase of life, like when we are very young. Teenagers hate being around pre-teenagers for example. They feel the difference. But as far as the rest of us go... I firmly believe that age does not matter. As a matter of fact, I think we shouldn't even tell each other our ages when we meet. Who cares. It adds nothing to our opinion of the other person.
 
20 & 49 myself. It's an almost picture perfect relationship, though if I had one warning, it would be the potential difference in sex drive. There are some older guys that are hornier than I am - I think it's more of a person-to-person thing, but some men aren't as horny all the time as they get older. I don't get as much sexin' as I would like.
 
Age doesn't really matter, it's whether or not people in the relationship can relate to one another. And attraction is a bonus of course too. Age can however hinder the connection, but if you have a connection and an attraction go for it.
 
Well my two loves in my life have been older than dirt compared to me.

My parents were ten years apart. My grandparents were ten years apart.

Age means sweet fuck all in the larger scheme of things.

Look at this way. when my dad was 20, my mother was half his age.

When he was 80, she was 7/8ths his age, so you see, we close the age gap as we get older.
 
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