Whatever they have to do then that should be acceptable to us all...after all they are running a business.
Sure, now they are running a business, when they started up and were recruiting users and members, building a 'client base' they were doing what they love, doing it for the chosen community, doing it for themselves. Suddenly commercialism and homogenization rears it's ugly ugly head and we are just supposed to accept that they are 'running a business' ?? and it doesn't just go for Xtube or Rebtube, I know of another little site, one that was all about gay guys, and only gay guys getting off, no charges, no commercial content, no bullshit.... lets just call it onlyweguys...
has anyone else noticed that we as a gay community are only becoming accepted as we become a commodity, something for another company to exploit? they finally realize that we generally are a group of driven, successful men, with high disposable incomes, and generally no dependents or forced commitment, and suddenly 'hey, you can be accepted too, just buy this product'
if you think i'm just being cynical, look into it, look into Gay Marketing, the past 10/15 years it has exponentially exploded as an industry. My two person favorites of this insulting paradigm of commercialism are "[FONT="]Untold Millions:
Secret truths about marketing to Gay and Lesbian Consumers (Lukenbill 1999)” and “Twenty Million New Customers!
Understanding Gay Men’s Consumer Behaviour ([/FONT][FONT="]Kates 1998)"
why we put up with this shit when our relationships are still not even recognised, and our community is considered some cutesy joke (are you also aware that same sex relationships are given more credit and rights in South Africa, where 50 years ago they had the Apartheid, than countries likes Australia and the USA, go civil rights!) is ridiculous, and the fact we all play into it and then are shocked by the outcome is insulting.
You may want to think about this next time you sign up for some site membership or buy your Calvin Klien jocks or Prada bag.
Believe me, i could go on about this for days, i'm a media and psych student (aside from my actual work, cause no i'm not just some bitter queen cause i have no money) whose based themselves on such study.
but you guys get the point... now lets see how long it takes this comment to be removed??
Tom
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