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does anyone thnk that ther bf is hotter than them?

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so does anyobdy think their bf is hotter than them. do u feel insecured or do u like the fact that u get to have someone so hot??(!)

for me i think its both. i like to think of myself as an average person who likes to look good and have a potential to do better. lol. but when i started going out with my bf (which is now my ex-bf). the first time i saw him i was lke, whoa! he could be a model. in fact even before we met, he told me that he applied to become a model, unfotunately he didnt pass but hes still tries to apply though. anyway, it shows that hes very cofident about himself and he knows hes so hot!!

but during our relationship, i felt less confident about myself and everytime we go shopping or go somewhere public, there were more girls and guys looking at him instead of me, im not competing with him, i was just insecured. when i was single, there are some people that will look at me and stuff like that but not as much as him coz i know im not as hot as him. :-)

i also wonder how he could like me coz i know he can go for someone better (u can see from the way i talk that i kinda lost my confidence about myself) but he always tells me that outof all the girls and guys hes been with, i was the hottest guy out of all of them and that makes me feel good. but we both knew he was hotter than me. :D

does anyone else have the same situation??
 
Re: does anyone thnk that ther bf is hotter than t

It is possible that he liked you for some reason other than your "hotness". Maybe he likes the way you behave in a crisis. Maybe he likes the way you make toast. Maybe you kiss like a fiend. If he says he likes/ loves you why question it unless he is hooking up with others? are you rich and think he is taking advantage of you somehow?
 
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noelie said:
If you keep dwelling on him being hotter than you then you could end up destroying the relationship.

Having said that I'm seeing a guy I think is hotter than me but he thinks I'm hot so I just leave it at that and enjoy the time I have with him.
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well the relationship was already ruined. lol!!

hes my ex now. kinda miss him sometimes though. i miss his 6packed body!! :-) yummyy
 
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gotdimples77 said:
It is possible that he liked you for some reason other than your "hotness". Maybe he likes the way you behave in a crisis. Maybe he likes the way you make toast. Maybe you kiss like a fiend. If he says he likes/ loves you why question it unless he is hooking up with others? are you rich and think he is taking advantage of you somehow?
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lol! i am not rich. yeh he likes my personality too. but he initially wanted to go out with me because i was the hottest guy hes been with according to him. we used to be just sex buddies but we got along really well. and at that time, even if he was hotter than me, we both knew he wanted me so much more than i wanted him although i really want him too but not as much as he wants me. he praises me everytime. he gives me compliments about my personality and physically as well. i really miss those days. but we broke up and hes in the army so i wont be seing him anymore. maybe ill just look for another one. lol!
 
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yeah, I think my bf is hotter than me, too. When we go out, all the guys & girls check him out. He's always telling me about this or that person who's flirted with him, too.
 
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Never even gave it any thought. I like him. That's all that matters. :)

Lex
 
Re: does anyone thnk that ther bf is hotter than t

I would say it's more of a problem when your boyfriend thinks he's hotter than you when he really isn't.

Or where he's hotter than you and treats you badly because of it or puts you down.

Otherwise, what's the dealio?
 
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My first love, Vincent, was way hotter than me. He had a muscular body from helping out his father at work , (his dad was a stone mason). And he had that wavy black hair that was long and unruly, and would fall into his face (it was the late 70's-early 80's)

Dave, my last boyfriend, was 6 years younger than me, had a jock body (from being a stock man at a supermarket). He was trim, tall, and oh, so fuckin' handsome (at age 38, he still is...)

I was always on the medium height but fat side (probably the reason I lost Dave...)
 
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Hmm, well, I haven't had any boyfriends or even dated yet..... but I'm pretty sure that most of the guys that I fall for or that are of my liking are pretty much hotter (or cooler), than me. And I somehow think I'd be really happy if I had a bf hotter than me.... I guess it'll somehow make me feel "privileged".... (and all the other guys and girls can be jealous of me)
 
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My current boyfriend and I have entirely different taste in men, and each is the other's "type," so each of us finds the other to be more attractive than he finds himself. I consider it to be a matter of taste rather than relative hotness, and don't dwell much on it.
 
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Meh, hotness isn't something you can condense down to a 0 to 100 scale. There are multiple dimensions of hotness and everybody has their own specific tastes. Even if you could boil it down to an absolute scale like that, would you prefer to date the hot one or be the hot one in the relationship? They both would have their own set of problems.
 
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drhladnjak said:
Meh, hotness isn't something you can condense down to a 0 to 100 scale. There are multiple dimensions of hotness and everybody has their own specific tastes. Even if you could boil it down to an absolute scale like that, would you prefer to date the hot one or be the hot one in the relationship? They both would have their own set of problems.
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well, the first few weeks we were dating, i was axctually happy that hes hotter because its such an eye candy.:D

hes too good to be true. hes a ladies man and had a few gfs. also had some guy hookups but i was his first bf and the first one to :sex: up his anal. :D he said he doesnt usually bottom but he did it for me coz i was the hottest one he had, even if i dont feel that way about myself. imagine this model-like body having his first experience with me?! that was unbelivable!

but then i start to fel lessconfident and stuff. he never actually said hes hotter or hes better than me or something like that. but we both knew in our minds that hes hotter. lol! although he always made me feel that i was the hottest one he had dated and hooked up which makes me feel good about myself. although sometimes irealise maybe hes lying coz hes hot and he can get anyone he wants but at the same time, he not really a social person and dont meet much guys and girls.

but overall, it was a good experiene being with a 6pack model and just caring for me. i miss him. :sex:
 
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lucky7 said:
Of course there are hot guys with good personalities too, but a lot of times, these guys tend to definitely be less than perfect dating-wise.
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Why do you feel this is the case? What prevents a person with a good (even compatible) personality from being perfectly datable? Just curious!
 
Re: does anyone thnk that ther bf is hotter than t

My BF feels that I am hotter them him. He calls me his 'Man Toy' since I am older them him. We are in a very strong and committed relationship so we have no issues. He likes it when we are walking around and guys check me out. Says it makes him feel good that he has such a sexy bf. I was worried about it at first but I am comfortable with it now.

An example was we just wet to Rehoboth Beach for a long weekend. He brought me a very sexy bathing suit ad made me wear it. He heard a couple guys talk about the sexy guy laying on the beach. He spoke up and saidyes he is and he is my bf. The guys commended him for have such a sexy bf.
 
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lucky7 said:
Not guys with good personalities, I'm talking about the supermodel types or the ones everyone thinks is so hot.
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Oh I thought you meant that guys who are very attractive and have good personalities can be difficult to date. That's what I was curious about.
 
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lucky7 said:
All sounds so superficial to me. Is the reason people date each other based so much on looks?

Anyway, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Ive had "hot" people think I was gorgeous but without any kind of connection, the whole thing is pointless. I actually prefer guys that are not-so-obviously-hot but really beautiful in their own way. The diamond in the rough kinds.

Of course there are hot guys with good personalities too, but a lot of times, these guys tend to definitely be less than perfect dating-wise.

But to the topic, lol.. the guy I just started seeing is hotter than me in my opinion.. but he possibly thinks I'm hotter than him.. and I'm sure ppl would have different preferences.
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i understand what ur saying.
there are guys that u find attractive but they are a bunch of dumb guys. but in my case, i would actually describe my ex-bf as perfect coz he had good personalities and good physical qualities. lol!

sorry guys if i keep on mentioning him, hes actually my first and only bf so far. and right now im craving for him.
 
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