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Does it ever stop hurting??
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unclaimedblessing
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Yes, eventually it does stop hurting. It just takes longer for some of us.
When you have really been deeply in love, most people don't get over it quickly. The lucky ones feel betrayed and can dismiss memories and love of their ex immediately.
Don't devote your future to regrets or unrequitted love.
He has changed and you have changed. Even if you were to reconcile, it would probably never be the same. You've been hurt too much and possibly would never be able to trust him again.
Consider your relationship a closed chapter in your life.
Try to socialize (not drink) more and rely on family and friends for support at least until your passed this.
Try to be more optimistic and enjoy life, life can be great and fulfilling without him too.
I hope your hurt fades quickly.
When you have really been deeply in love, most people don't get over it quickly. The lucky ones feel betrayed and can dismiss memories and love of their ex immediately.
Don't devote your future to regrets or unrequitted love.
He has changed and you have changed. Even if you were to reconcile, it would probably never be the same. You've been hurt too much and possibly would never be able to trust him again.
Consider your relationship a closed chapter in your life.
Try to socialize (not drink) more and rely on family and friends for support at least until your passed this.
Try to be more optimistic and enjoy life, life can be great and fulfilling without him too.
I hope your hurt fades quickly.
Nonimus
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It doesn't stop hurting all together - the pain gets less and less as time goes on - and when someone else stands up - you loose sight of the other guy and you can love again!
Ok, that's enough smultz from me....
Ok, that's enough smultz from me....
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Soilwork
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The sting will always be there.
I had a bf once dump me (and his reason was that I was fat and ugly) when I was 21.
That was 16 years ago, and I'd be lying if I said that it doesn't hurt anymore.
But you do move on.. you get on with your life and you meet new people.. you become a better man for it.
I had a bf once dump me (and his reason was that I was fat and ugly) when I was 21.
That was 16 years ago, and I'd be lying if I said that it doesn't hurt anymore.
But you do move on.. you get on with your life and you meet new people.. you become a better man for it.
sherman
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Mending a broken heart is the worst, but you just can't sit their and dwell on it(take it from experience). Everything in life happens for a reason and in time you will be over it. The hurt take's a while to go away but things get better as time go's on.
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cozmik
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As others have said, the pain never really leaves. You just learn to accept it and live with it.
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teh_nathan
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I suppose the best advice I can give is: Everything takes time.
I still struggle with past issues with exes many years after the fact. For myself, I have a lot of trust issues to work though (and probably if I get a bf/gf, I'd caution them not to run headfirst into the relationship). It may take five more years, it may take ten but it'll get worked through.
Time heals all, etc. Unless I'm proven wrong.
I still struggle with past issues with exes many years after the fact. For myself, I have a lot of trust issues to work though (and probably if I get a bf/gf, I'd caution them not to run headfirst into the relationship). It may take five more years, it may take ten but it'll get worked through.
Time heals all, etc. Unless I'm proven wrong.
cocktales
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David, maybe they ^, said it more eloquently than I can..........but, I too think the pain will stay with you; but you will learn to use it for your advantage for what NOT TO DO the next time....
It's like a death in the family, that is when you get dumped!
You must grieve for the loss, cry, get angry, and all the other list of things that occur when you have a death of a close family member....
Have you grieved?
If you say yes, then David, my friend, it's now time to move on and live your life to the fullest extent possible........I bet your lost-love has, hasn't he?
I bet he thinks fondly of you.........the bastard! lol
Now that the stud has his boy-toy, he is happy, I guess?
David, don't make the same mistakes you made with the last one.....I am sure you know what those mistakes are/were, so now go out on a search and rescue mission to find that perfect person in your life!
He's out there, looking for you too, so open up; but don't be gullible and fall for that crap, Mr. Lawyer used on unsuspecting YOU!
Love yourself enough to move on, K?
It's like a death in the family, that is when you get dumped!
You must grieve for the loss, cry, get angry, and all the other list of things that occur when you have a death of a close family member....
Have you grieved?
If you say yes, then David, my friend, it's now time to move on and live your life to the fullest extent possible........I bet your lost-love has, hasn't he?
I bet he thinks fondly of you.........the bastard! lol
Now that the stud has his boy-toy, he is happy, I guess?
David, don't make the same mistakes you made with the last one.....I am sure you know what those mistakes are/were, so now go out on a search and rescue mission to find that perfect person in your life!
He's out there, looking for you too, so open up; but don't be gullible and fall for that crap, Mr. Lawyer used on unsuspecting YOU!
Love yourself enough to move on, K?
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The pain never goes away. It may decrease over time, but I never stop missing them.
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I does get easier as time goes on. But I still have moments alone where I weep for my first partner and true love Joseph and more recently my Sister Judy in 2016 and my Mom and Dad of course.
I think the way they died plays a big role as well that hurts the heart more or less.
I think the way they died plays a big role as well that hurts the heart more or less.
HoodedRat
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My Dad died almost 40 years ago; I still miss him every single day. 
NotHardUp1
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It also matters if the heart has continued to find new loves.
If loving is part of your past and not your present or future, then you mourn for it as much as you do for the subject of it.
Keep loving.
If loving is part of your past and not your present or future, then you mourn for it as much as you do for the subject of it.
Keep loving.
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