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Does it hurt a lot when you get it up the ass?

Depends. The first time i got fucked, it didn't hurt at all and my friend was surprised by how easily i took his big cock. He even asked me after if I had done this before. At that time, I didn't have a dildo so all i used was my finger or a toothbrush. He was shocked at how easily it slid in and how much i liked it. He didn't even have lube so he used spit and some hand moisturizer. That was a fun time.
 
While I've never experienced anything I'd describe as pain from taking a cock up my ass, lots of guys do seem to experience some level of pain. However, the first thing I had in my ass that was larger than a finger was a polish sausage (wrapped in a condom). That hurt a little going in, but once its full girth had gotten past my sphincter, the pain disappeared almost immediately.

Taking a cock up your ass is kind of like taking a dump. I'm not sure I'd ever describe a normal shit as painful unless I'm constipated. There might be some discomfort but if you relax, it can actually feel pretty good. The same happens with a cock. Once you relax, it can feel really good. You may even be back for more.
 
I should add that if you tense up, it probably is going to hurt - perhaps a lot. If you're worried that you might tense up, be sure to talk with the guy who is going to fuck you. Be sure he knows you're new to this and tense or maybe even scared. One possible solution to this is to have him finger your asshole. Start with one well-lubed finger and work his way up to 2 and then 3 fingers, maybe even 4 if he has a thick cock. Once you learn to relax while he does this, you'll be ready for his meat.
 
BiGuySeth said:
I wanna experience getting anal but wondered if it hurts a lot .
I love getting rimmed but I know a hard cock will be different than a tongue up my pussy hole..
I enjoy fingering my hole but I know that's not the same thing.
Any advice?
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Not if you're properly prepped and he knows what he is doing. Have him rim you and fingerbang you. Have him lube your pussy and his cock and enter slowly. Once that sphincter relaxes, he can go full throttle and the ultimate in pleasure will be all yours. If you're like me, you'll be begging for his cum, to be his bitch and for him to never stop. And screaming in delight.

CAUTION: It is addictive. You'll become obsessed with getting fucked.
 
It hurt my first few times for sure. I didn't know anything about preparing for it in advance. Obviously there is some simple need for loosening up too, but I found learning to relax while I take it was the single biggest key to get it to not hurt or be uncomfortable after the first few times.
 
The OP has long gone, but for anyone else who might be thinking of their first time and wondering if it will hurt...

Yes, if you go wham bam thank you man, it could hurt. The ass is designed to clamp shut when it's not being used as an exit. It needs to be nurtured and trained to take a cock.

It helps to practice, first with fingers and then with toys, starting smaller and working up to cock size. A good quality lube is a must. Ideally this will be from an adult store, and water based for toys, or if you need it to be from around the house, coconut oil. Get yourself comfortable where you won't be disturbed, or in the shower and take your time.

I've found the process of cleaning (douching) helps to relax and dilate my ass. I prepare for anal sex with a good clean, and then over the toilet, dip my hole with a dildo to flush out any remaining water and as a final check on cleanliness. Don't douche too deep or over-fill. Your plumbing turns a corner about 6-7" in. Up around the corner is tomorrow's poop (the sigmoid colon if you need to google it). If you get water up around your S-bend you'll be flushing for ages. Leave tomorrow's poop for tomorrow and clean out your rectum.

I've found a good technique when taking a cock or a cock-sized dildo is to push gently (as though taking a dump) which tells your ass to relax and dilate to take it. You have two muscles that clamp shut, called sphincters. The outer sphincter is the one you can consciously squeeze and relax. The inner one is an inch or two in, and is involuntary. When the dildo or cock head is in, it meets a slight resistance. This is your inner sphincter saying "no". Relax, breathe and push out as you or your top presses, not forces, just presses to allow you to dilate and take it. Once it slides in past the sphincters, the job's done! Your ass will envelop the cock and can slide right up to the balls in heavenly connection.

It's good for your first time to be with an understanding and preferably experienced top that you're comfortable communicating with. Don't take cues from porn, where the guys are experienced and have loosened up before the shoot. He can't just shove it in. First time anal sex should not hurt, and need not hurt if you're prepared and the top goes at your pace and checks in with you.

More info is here on understanding your anatomy and links with more advice: https://forums.justusboys.com/threads/all-about-ass.272148/
 
The only time it hurt for me was when the top had no idea what they were doing. But practicing does help a lot. Wearing a butt plug occasionallly and making sure you have plenty of lube when you do take that cock
 
mnpervert said:
The only time it hurt for me was when the top had no idea what they were doing. But practicing does help a lot. Wearing a butt plug occasionallly and making sure you have plenty of lube when you do take that cock
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Lube and some finger work and slow entry. Once that sphincter is relaxed, you'll want him to go full throttle and never stop. And when he cums inside you? There is no greater feeling of excitement and contentment knowing he left part of himself deep within.
 
BiGuySeth said:
I wanna experience getting anal but wondered if it hurts a lot .
I love getting rimmed but I know a hard cock will be different than a tongue up my pussy hole..
I enjoy fingering my hole but I know that's not the same thing.
Any advice?
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It can hurt a lot if you are not totally relaxed or if you are not using a generous supply of lube. It can also be painful if the guy is too rough with you when attempting to penetrate your ass.. I recommend that if you do decide to to experience anal as a bottom that you tell your partner that it is your first time. I also recommend that you buy a cock shaped dildo and practice with that on your own before trying the real thing.. Make sure you use a plentiful supply of lube when you do this. Playing with a cock shaped dildo that is the same size as most cocks will give you a strong sense of what it will feel like to have something larger than your finger or fingers in your ass. It will also give you confidence that you can take a cock in your ass without it being painful and that will help relax you when you actually do let a man fuck you.

I am a total bottom and have never had any desire to fuck another man. Before I ever had anal sex as a bottom I practiced with a medium sized cock shaped dildo It felt really good but having a man's cock in my ass is a much more pleasurable experience than I ever got from using any cock shaped dildo to fuck myself. .
 
ricksvca said:
It can hurt a lot if you are not totally relaxed or if you are not using a generous supply of lube. It can also be painful if the guy is too rough with you when attempting to penetrate your ass.. I recommend that if you do decide to to experience anal as a bottom that you tell your partner that it is your first time. I also recommend that you buy a cock shaped dildo and practice with that on your own before trying the real thing.. Make sure you use a plentiful supply of lube when you do this. Playing with a cock shaped dildo that is the same size as most cocks will give you a strong sense of what it will feel like to have something larger than your finger or fingers in your ass. It will also give you confidence that you can take a cock in your ass without it being painful and that will help relax you when you actually do let a man fuck you.

I am a total bottom and have never had any desire to fuck another man. Before I ever had anal sex as a bottom I practiced with a medium sized cock shaped dildo It felt really good but having a man's cock in my ass is a much more pleasurable experience than I ever got from using any cock shaped dildo to fuck myself. .
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All true. Plus dildos covered in lube being worked by a hand covered in lube is difficult. Use the real thing and leave the driving to him. Just lube up, go slow and enjoy the rider. There is nothing better than getting fucked! Except, of course, when he let's loose the scream and cums inside you. DAMN!

You have just given your man the ultimate gift, the pleasure he deserves.
 
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