NightRaider
JUB Addict
Some will say that's a good question. Really wondering whether anyone does anymore.Recently I had having several contacts from guys about a personal ad I have and they all just wanted sex. They were all good looking and would probably make someone a good boyfriend but they just want no strings sex and move on. Although I don't have anything against it if that's what one wants to do I never seem to hear about dating anymore.
What the hell happened to it
. Dating is so nice. First the initial contact by e-mail or a message about your personal, the following conversations, the first phone call, the first meeting for coffee, the first dinner together and the anticipation for the first sensual contact. Isn't it all wonderful or is my romantic side just getting the better of me?
I don't have anything against the one nighters or a quick BJ behind a tree.God knows I am guilty of that.
But it does get old after a while and the realization of just how cold it is starts to turn me off anymore. When I am out at a gay establishment and I see two guys holding hands or a sweet kiss it just gets to me and makes me all warm inside and when I hear that they have been together for a while it's a great thing to hear and just makes me smile.
I find it disturbing a bit in this day with all of the STD's out there that so much unsafe sex is still going on and the dating scene seems to have taken the back seat. Maybe some of you JUB'ers out there see it all differently. Would like to hear what you are experiencing as far as the dating scene goes.
I hope the romance of dating doesn't just fade away.That truly would be sad.....
What the hell happened to it
. Dating is so nice. First the initial contact by e-mail or a message about your personal, the following conversations, the first phone call, the first meeting for coffee, the first dinner together and the anticipation for the first sensual contact. Isn't it all wonderful or is my romantic side just getting the better of me?I don't have anything against the one nighters or a quick BJ behind a tree.God knows I am guilty of that.
But it does get old after a while and the realization of just how cold it is starts to turn me off anymore. When I am out at a gay establishment and I see two guys holding hands or a sweet kiss it just gets to me and makes me all warm inside and when I hear that they have been together for a while it's a great thing to hear and just makes me smile.I find it disturbing a bit in this day with all of the STD's out there that so much unsafe sex is still going on and the dating scene seems to have taken the back seat. Maybe some of you JUB'ers out there see it all differently. Would like to hear what you are experiencing as far as the dating scene goes.
I hope the romance of dating doesn't just fade away.That truly would be sad.....