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Don't believe in love anymore...

subfer1

subfer1

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Yeah... I don't... I've certainly never lived it, and every time I've thought that friends of mine who are couples have been in love, I've realized later that they were not, or it didn't work and it ended up showing that either one wasn't into it as the other was... I guess I'm just at that depressed point in which I cannot conceive it. I can't even write anymore, the characters in my story yell out to me from the pages, but I can't write about them anymore because of all the love around them, I don't think I can write about love anymore... I'm sorry, I know this is a stupid rant, but I needed to get it off my chest.
 
Like swerve said, we love you, but i most definitely love your avatar :)
 
Hi Subfer1,
Your friends probably DID LOVE each other at the beginning of the relationship. Too bad it didn't last for them. Love maybe temporary for those two people. That does not mean love does not exist. Just like a rainbow does not last all day and all night. It does not mean rainbow does not exist.

Too many adults depend on others to provide love and happiness. That's the wrong attitude. Love is about sharing what you have. You have to love yourself first. You have to find your own happiness alone. Once you have that, then you share your love and happiness to others. You cannot share what you don't have for yourself. You cannot donate money to charity if you don't have money for yourself first. You cannot teach what you don't know.

Just like learning how to ride a bicycle, roller blading or skiing. You will fall a few times at first. If you're determined to keep at it, you'll learn how to get back up and try again and fine-tune your techniques. Then you'll get good at it. But if you give up after the first fall, you will not learn how to ride a bicycle...how to roller blade...or how to ski.

So, do you have love for yourself? Do you have confidence in yourself?
Cheers
 
You have my sympathy. We've all been there.

But, just once, wouldn't it be great to hear someone say " I don't believe in hate anymore"?
 
I dunno... I have fallen in love many times and given all my love to the guys I've fallen for and they have all broken my heart, each time worse than the one before... Now they won't even give it a try with me... I guess I'm just getting sick of it...
 
I can understand that, sub I've had my heart broken a ton of times and each one I've gone through I learned to not make those same mistakes in the future. I know that right now might not be the good time for love but it eventually comes around. Even if it doesn't come tomorrow or next week you will have learned from your experiences in the relationship and not fall into the old mistakes.
 
I feel for yah subfer1. I just had a horrible breakup with my BF of just over 2 years on Friday. I thought I was in love but I dunno. I never expected me to dump him but I did it, and sadly very publicly. I am just glad I have the support of my friends to keep me going right now. If it wasn't for them, I would have been moping in my bed, crying all weekend.
 
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