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Don't know what to take from this experience....

PSUdude24

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Just wanted to tell you about an experience I had recently. I was hanging out with some friends near my home....we were going hiking and 4-wheeling and whatnot, just having a good time. Well along with us was a good friend of mine who is married and a straight as a line. Well the majority of my friends went on ahead and left my married friend and myself behind, we were finishing up a project we have been working on and would catch up with the rest later. Well anyway....I have to admit that I find this friend of mine to be extremely attractive, he is a bit older than I am but is cute, funny, has a great personality, just a great guy to be around. Lately, I have developed feelings for him and find myself attracted to him. To make a long story a bit shorter...we finished up what we were doing and were on our way to catch up with the others. I had intended on walking but my friend insisted that we take the 4-wheeler. I was hesitant at first cuz of the tight seating arrangement but he insisted. So I hopped on behind him and we went on our way. Boy was the seating tight, my thighs were literally pressed right against his thighs and my crotch was right against his ass. So here I am attracted to this guy and this close to him....this isn't good I thought to myself, trying to keep my mind off of our closeness and all that....you know :) So the ride starts getting bumpy and more bumpy and before you know it I began to get hard....I was in panic mode and tried to relax hoping it would stop, but it kept throbbing and I thought for sure he had to feel that, didn't have to think I knew he felt it. I have to add here, my friend thinks that I am straight for I am not out....I actually consider myself to be Bi, but he doesn't know any of this. We continue riding along and I have a raging hardon at this point...and I couldn't believe what my friend did then. He put his one hand on my thigh and pressed his ass even closer to me. I was shocked at what was going on at this point for I expected none of this to happen. Then we saw our other friends up ahead so he stopped the 4-wheeler a bit before reaching them, and he turned around and smiled at me and jokingly said that the seat seemed extra slippery today....and that he was sorry if he seemed to close to me. And that was pretty much it for now, I didn't know what to expect from that. I didn't notice if he had a boner as well due to the fact that I was too focused on getting mine down before my other friends saw. We went on our way and I've seen him quite a few times since then but he hasn't mentioned a word of it. All I keep thinking about is the what-if's, like what if I cupped his crotch when he grabbed my thigh or if I had kissed him when we got off the 4-wheeler, would he have kissed me back? I just can't help but wonder. I wonder if I should bring this up to him sometime when we are alone again, I just don't want any awkwardness between us, he's too good of a friend.
 
That's really cute! not everything has to lead to sex or something, sometimes it's just nice to have a little moment like that. What you have discovered is that you have a friend you can trust, which is the most awesome thing in the world. Just enjoy the moment...for now.
 
who cares?
married men are always the horniest.
and sometimes best in bed. ;)
 
Thanks for your thoughts... I have to say that I could never do anything further with this friend, I value his friendship way too much and his wife is the nicest girl you'd want to meet...I could never do anything to hurt her or jeopardize our friendship.
 
Well man, it sounds like he'd be open to something between the two of you. It's really up to you as to whether you want to pursue anything further. No one can tell you it's wrong or right, only you will know that. It's your situation.

Having said that, here are a few things I'd consider if i were you:

If you are concerned that you could lose his friendship if you pursue this and you feel that would be too great of a cost, don't do it.

If you think that you may become too emotionally involved, don't do it. He's married and he probably just wants some sex on the side and not much else.

If you think there isn't going to be any awkwardness between you at this point, you are wrong. Things will probably be awkward between you two from here forward because of what happened on the 4-wheeler.

Just because you decide not to pursue this doesn't mean he won't have a sexual fling with one of your other "straight" guy friends or some other guy instead. If you don't pursue it, don't be surprised to see him buddying up with another guy.

His wife could know about his interests in guys, and if your lucky might even approve of you as his sex buddy. Some marriages are a lot more open than most people think. Chances are you won't be that lucky.

If you do decide to pursue it, enjoy it but be VERY discreet about the whole thing. Just remember he's married and not to get emotionally attached. Don't worry about those people that get freaked out about the mere thought of this. You can't protect every married guy's marriage from himself. If he wants to have sex with a guy on the side, he's going to do it with or without you. Ultimately, it's his marriage to preserve, not yours. If you have weighed out all these issues and as long as you don't do anything to break up his marriage, and are safe and discreet, I wouldn't feel guilty about having some buddy to buddy sex with your friend.
 
don't pursue anything, he is married first of all but also this could ultimately ruin a good friendship. Just let it be
 
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