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hothole724

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i consider myself bisexual first off..at least i think i am...i am attracted to men greatly on a very physical level but i can never see myself in a relationship with a man. I can't really see myself ever liking a man other than for his looks (sorry if that offends anyone). i always have seen myself settling down with a wife and kids and live happily. I am attracted to woman both phyiscally and emotionally but i am more attracted to men physically and less attracted to men emotionally. Can anyone help me figure out what i am sexual preference wise? thanks to anyone that can help.
 
Feel the same way. Think maybe I just like sex. Certainly enjoy experimenting online.
 
hothole724 said:
iCan anyone help me figure out what i am sexual preference wise? thanks to anyone that can help.
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You've already named what you are - bisexual.

Most bisexuals go through phases where they have feelings more toward one gender more than the other. It's something that changes with time and is not constant. Be aware that in time, most bisexuals will settle on a lifestyle that they feel most comfortable with- whether than be a "straight" marriage with children or a same-sex relationship.

You just have to be open to whatever happens.
 
Speaking only for me....I felt the same as you in my 20's. Until, that is, the right man came along. Then I found out, very quickly, that it was possible to love a man--more so than a woman.

Perhaps the guy that makes your clock tick hasn't crossed your path yet.
 
it could be also possible that you see yourself with kids and wife because society says so. when I was younger I wanted to have kids but I wasn't sure If I wanted a wife and I still want kids but that's not possible where I live. anyway time is the only answer to your question, it will help you to realise whether you are bi or gay, for now just think that you're not the only one who feels like that, there are many who feel and who felt so. Besides as averageguy said perhaps the guy that makes you feel that you can love him hasn't arrived yet.

just be patient and you will figure things out ;)
 
I always tell myself that im still very young and trying to figure my life out. I still have plenty of time. The same applies to you.

Take it slow and have fun. Don't be in a rush to figure yourself out.
 
You are 22 man... no need to figure it all out quite yet.

A question here though... have you ever dated before? Yeah, that may sound silly but lot's of guys even at 22 haven't dated.
So have you dated girls? dated guys?
 
i've dated girls and i really liked it..i went out with one girl for about a year and she never knew and still doesn't that im bisexual (if even am that). I never dated men because im not really emotionally attracted to them..im thinking though that those emotions would come along later and i would be completely fine with that..my real question is are there any bisexual men out there that are exclusively straight? how do you have a marriage with a female if you are attracted to other men?
 
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bisexual men out there that are exclusively straight?
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No, because bisexuals by definitions aren't exclusively "straight".

What you are actually asking is "Are there guys who are in committed relationships with women but who also have sex with other guys ?". The answer to that question is "Yes".

hothole724 said:
how do you have a marriage with a female if you are attracted to other men?
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You either:
  1. Give up fun with the boys when you get married just like you would give up sex with other women
  2. You screw around with guys behind your wife's back

Neither of these options is ideal. But unfortunately, if you want a marriage and children, you're not going to be able to have everything. Unfortunately, being an adult is about making choices... often choices that are not easy.
 
You're bi.

There is always pressure to identify oneself with a label. Continue to explore. Sexuality isn't black and white and it's all in how you define it for yourself.
 
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