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Looking for opinions guys, lurker with a problem, any advice is appreciated. I have been dating a guy for six weeks, we get along and seem to be compatable. We went out a week ago with some of his friends to super, all went well until yesterday. I got a text from my bf's friend stating that we could not be friends any longer because he could not stand what his friend my bf was doing to me. I was completely lost by this statement so I called the friend and asked for specifics. The friend stated that he thought my bf was still attached to his ex and he could not stand to watch me get hurt in that fashion. I'll admit my bf talks about his ex alot but just the other day he told me he was compleely thru with him. So my question is am I cought up in drama between two guys or am I being lied to by one or both. Personally I dont feel like my bf is lying to me but then again I am sort of looking at him with rose colored glasses on.:confused:
 
I can't help but wonder what the motives of this friend are to be taking this interest in your affairs, not to mention intriguing behind the back of the person he is supposed to be the friend of... I wonder what he's telling the BF about you?
 
Erm, what an odd thing to say out of the blue...

Two things to really understand here:

  • This friend is truly trying to be a nice person and warn you before you get hurt.
  • He wants your boyfriend and is just being shady about it.
Your best bet is to just ask your bf flat out, tell him you got a call and take it from there...
 
Show your bf the text message. Be aware that if your bf was in a recent break up there is the chance he'd go back to the ex.
 
Lunarus: I thought I might just keep it to myself as to not get into the middle of a feud.
 
soreknees: my bf broke up with his ex 2 years ago and still wanted to be friends with him until a week ago when he caught him lying to him again about being out on a date.
 
Sounds to me as if your BF's "friend" might be jealous of you and is trying to split you up. He certainly has no reason to try to protect you as he doesn't really know you. He should be talking to his supposed friend and telling him not to lead you on.

I would suggest, as mentioned above, that you show the text to your BF non confrontationally, just asking if he knows what it is about, this will give him the opportunity to either come clean with you or, more likely, have it out with this supposed friend of his.
 
Yup.

Rat out the 'Friend'.
 
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