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Due date to lose virginity

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Just wondering what ever thing is the due date for someone to lose their v and what says about someone who is older than that and still a virgin?
 
Unless you have an expiration stamped on your ass, no. :)
 
I lost it when I was 20. I had numerous opportunities before that but it never felt right.

To be honest, at 20 it still didn't feel right. I regretted my decision and wished I'd waited until I found someone I really cared about.

This isn't religious dogma or anything else, I just genuinely think sexual experiences are better when you're with someone you really have feelings for. It's not the same for everyone, you might feel completely the opposite, lol.
 
There is no due date. Some people want to wait for that "special someone". Other people don't care and just want to fuck. Whatever suits you and whenever is when it's time.
 
hotatlboi said:
There is no due date. Some people want to wait for that "special someone". Other people don't care and just want to fuck. Whatever suits you and whenever is when it's time.
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What hotboi said is great and totally correct. Sex should be with someone to whom you are attracted, whether it be physically, emotionally, etc.

It is said that you will never forget your first sex and for me that is very true, so I suggest you just don't rush it. The stronger the connection the better the experience.

And the other thing is to rememebr to always play safe!
 
If you're really REALLY feel you're "past due" on losing your virginity, go lose it. If you're in a city of any size, it shouldn't take more than a week. It won't necessarily be great, but then you won't need to obsess about it anymore.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
If you're really REALLY feel you're "past due" on losing your virginity, go lose it. If you're in a city of any size, it shouldn't take more than a week. It won't necessarily be great, but then you won't need to obsess about it anymore.

Lex
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I have to say that I agree with this advice. My first time was kind of bad because I was so nervous, but I was so relieved to have it over and done with that my subsequent experiences were much better.
 
in germany if you become 30 and never had a relationship before, your friends will make you clean a churche's steps. and to make it more entertaining they empty buckets of crown caps on it before :D (but technically that doesn't mean that you're a virgin)
 
col-frank said:
^heard of that, but I think it's a regional thing

I'm 24 and a virgin..
it used to bother me so much, peer pressure. Now I am a bit proud of that, and it will make it even more special, when I find the person I feel comfortable around.
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Same here. I'm a little proud too. Sex is serious business, not to be rushed into.

I can think of 3 meet ups where I could have had a one-night stand if I said yes. However my sex drive had vanished, especially since it was my first meeting with the other people.
 
mydrew1 said:
Same here. I'm a little proud too. Sex is serious business
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And that is probably one of the worst mistakes people make.
Sex should be fun. It should be enjoyable.
Nobody says it needs to casual or without feelings .. but serious business? No thanks ..
 
Corny said:
And that is probably one of the worst mistakes people make.
Sex should be fun. It should be enjoyable.
Nobody says it needs to casual or without feelings .. but serious business? No thanks ..
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Yeah, it should be fun. But I'm not going to have casual sex with somebody I'm not interested in, much beyond that if they're not a bodatiously sexy model-like guy that a one-night stand would be tradable for a long-term relationship.

I have a daily sex drive. I am sure I'd be willing to have sex on the first day after meeting someone, but it'd have to be worth it.
 
Well, in our village, we make the 30 year old virgins fuck a sheep so at least they won't die alone.

But here's the thing. There is nothing special about losing your 'virginity', since getting fucked in the ass is hardly the equivalent of having a hymen torn to shreds.
 
Yea I still have mine but I not in a hurry to lose it. Not necessarily out of sense to keep it special, I'm still not ready so fun times. Just after some recent happening I was wondering what people here thought.
 
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