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[bumstead53]

Hi guys, this is i think my first time posting, i'm rather a shy guy. I have a problem I need some advise on, if i could get some help it would be greatfull. OK so i'm rather a taller guy, i'm 6'5" and i wear a size 16 shoe, and i'm failry large as not in fat, but above average on body parts, such as fingers are bigger, feet are bigger etc. but everything on my body is larger except well if you have guess you probably got it right, my penis. my problem is, i dont think its up to par. i'm 20 going to be 21 in 2 months, is there anything i should do to have checked out, or possibly a way to get it to grow more?

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Isn't having an oversized dick a bad thing?

 

[bumstead53]

I'm not looking for an over sized dick, i'm more of a below average on that area. even if i were at least an average or a bit above would be better.

 

[racer2438]

what you got is what you got. God made you and he is done. Its not going to grow anymore.

The more you stress on your size the more it is going to bother you. Just deal with it before you make this a bigger issue (sorry no pun intended).

This size thing for men is hell.

 

[purina]

What do you think is average? How big is yours?

 

[bumstead53]

I think average is from 6-9", thats what i've gathered. Mine is, well depending how hard i get its either 4-5" and its rather really thin.

racer2438, i know that you get what you get, but i know that everyone in my family is of normal width and size. i've seen both my brothers and my dad through out the years, and i haven't really grown much since i was like 13, so i'm rather concerned that there could be something wrong.

 

[aab91030]

HAHA! Average is NOT 6-9"! Where did you get any idea like that?

I think several studies have shown that average is 5-7".

I WISH average were 6-9'!!

Stop worrying! Enjoy what you have!

 

[bumstead53]

Alright well i was off on the average size, my bad. I took a guess on it, seeing that most males nowadays seem to be at least 6" that i've noticed. The problem is that i'm worrying because it doesn't "go with the flow" of the rest of my body. But does anyone think i should maybe have a check up on it, or should i try to move on as hard as it may be to do.

 

[Corny]

as others stated. 6-9'' is by no means "average". 9'' is WAY above average. You are probably totally on the average scale - just your large body makes it LOOK smaller. That's the same reason why people always say the skinny small guys have the biggest penis. But they don't - they just LOOK larger on them.
Oh and don't ever mistake Internet-Inches ("most males nowadays seem to be 6''+") with real inches

 

[purina]

I think you're on the low side of average. The majority of men have penises that are about an inch either side of 6 inches regardless of height. I'm 6'6" and mine is just under 6 inches. The half dozen guys 6'2" or over I've been with have ranged from about 5 to 7 inches measured at their max. My cock was as big as it ever got by 13 even though I was only about 6ft. tall at that age and grew 6 more inches in height.

 

[bumstead53]

That is true on the aspect of my larger scale can make it appear smaller but at the same time i find it to be rather thin. its not what a average thickness would be, well from what i've seen on most males. I just feel insecure and a bunch of other things about it, like seeing my friends having buldges while i using do not have one. its rather embarassing if they've ever noticed. of course i always think they have.

 

[Corny]

bumstead, if you still feel insecure - maybe have a look at our "show off yourself" forum, where you can see many self-pics of other members from this board. you will see all kinds of cocks in all shapes and sizes. i believe many insecurities about dick size just are there because people often haven't seen much cock of REAL people to compare to in their lives (instead of usually above average porno stars)

 

[bumstead53]

I have actually browsed through the forum and looked many of times a various threads seeing all different sizes and shapes. the thing is, its just rather difficult for me to deal with because its like i'm not up to par, its like if you haven't had a growth spurt while everyone else in your class has, you feel like your left out and somethings wrong. i just really feel that i should be larger and think that there might be something wrong mainly because every male in my family is of normal size.

 

[Corny]

i believe there is not much which can go "wrong" with your penis growth. if there is something wrong you will notice that elsewise .. like the rest of your body is growing too slowly or too fast. if that is/was the case you might check in with an endocrinologist - however he will probably just be able to find the cause, do something against it and see what other side (maybe dangerous) side effects it has (like under-developed internal organs). he will NOT be able to make your dick grow bigger. maybe some of our resident doctors can tell you more.
but i really do believe that you are totally fine and "just" have self-conscious issues.

 

[bumstead53]

Well thank you for the help you have given me. I suppose you are right and I am just being worried over nothing. Its just something hard to deal with i guess, i just wished i had some of the dicks i've seen on here when some of the guys ask if they're to small, i usually get envious haha, hate to admit it but it happens. again thank you for your help, i guess i just have to live with it. maybe i'll post something and see what others think of the size.

 

[KaraBulut]

The thing is, its just rather difficult for me to deal with because its like i'm not up to par, its like if you haven't had a growth spurt while everyone else in your class has, you feel like your left out and somethings wrong. i just really feel that i should be larger and think that there might be something wrong mainly because every male in my family is of normal size.

A couple of things that you have said have confused me- I can't tell whether you're talking about your height/size or your penis size.

How long have you been this tall?

Are the other men in your family this tall?

When you say that parts of your body are oversized, are parts of your body- like your hands, fingers, feet- long and thin or are these body parts of normal proportion for someone who is 6'5"?

And is your concern that you dick appears small when soft or that it appears small when erect?

 

[panda29]

one way for us to answer your question on size it to let us see for our selfs send a photo.I don't think you really have anything to worry about?

 

[gabriel1]

Hi guys, this is i think my first time posting, i'm rather a shy guy. I have a problem I need some advise on, if i could get some help it would be greatfull. OK so i'm rather a taller guy, i'm 6'5" and i wear a size 16 shoe, and i'm failry large as not in fat, but above average on body parts, such as fingers are bigger, feet are bigger etc. but everything on my body is larger except well if you have guess you probably got it right, my penis. my problem is, i dont think its up to par. i'm 20 going to be 21 in 2 months, is there anything i should do to have checked out, or possibly a way to get it to grow more?

Post a picture on the self pictures thread and let us drool over it before you beat yourself up about this.

 

[bumstead53]

The thing is, its just rather difficult for me to deal with because its like i'm not up to par, its like if you haven't had a growth spurt while everyone else in your class has, you feel like your left out and somethings wrong. i just really feel that i should be larger and think that there might be something wrong mainly because every male in my family is of normal size.

A couple of things that you have said have confused me- I can't tell whether you're talking about your height/size or your penis size.

How long have you been this tall?

Are the other men in your family this tall?

When you say that parts of your body are oversized, are parts of your body- like your hands, fingers, feet- long and thin or are these body parts of normal proportion for someone who is 6'5"?

And is your concern that you dick appears small when soft or that it appears small when erect?

I'm actually the tallest person in my family, i have always been taller. What i'm taking about when i say that my body is "oversized" is that my hands and feet are larger than most in both length and width. But they're not like freak sized and stand out. everything on my body is proportioned to my body, but i feel that my dick is not proportioned to the rest of my body, both when soft and hard.

panda29 and gabriel1 i have thought of posting a picture but i'm still unsure about it.

 

[KaraBulut]

bumstead53:

So far I have not seen anything to indicate that your dick is anything but average. It's the rest of you that is not average.

Bodybuilders have the same complaint- as they get bigger, their normal sized dicks look increasingly smaller.

The reason I ask about your family and about the relative proportion of your extremities is that there is a syndrome called Marfan Syndrome that is a connective tissue disorder. The syndrome has a set of very distinct physical feature in the chest, hands and feet however the genitals are not oversized as in other syndromes.

There is no need to post a picture of your dick.