Erection during massage

[WildOutside]

I have an excellent, straight male massage therapist. Problem is, I get erections during my treatments. I don't want him to fire me as a client because he's so good. How can I get my dick under better control?

 

[Telstra]

lol don't worry.
He know what to do as a "massage therapist".
Just watch at porn's massage, it is similar .... promise.

 

[WildOutside]

lol don't worry.
He know what to do as a "massage therapist".
Just watch at porn's massage, it is similar .... promise.

I should have made this clearer-- the massages are in a medical setting for a physical problem. So I really don't want to get an erection.

 

[Georgiadude]

I'm a licensed massage therapist. erections happen all of the time during a massage. your body is responding to the touch. it's normal. as long as you keep yourself under control, there shouldn't be a problem. by that I mean no touching it unless you need to move it for comfort. a minor adjustment is ok. no moaning or other noises. that type of stuff will get you kicked out. if you just ignore it and act like it hasn't happened you'll be fine. Also you could mention it to him before your next appointment. just a simple "I know you've noticed I get an erection. I'm sorry but it just happens. I'm not trying to make you uncomfortable or hint at anything. " a professional massage therapist understands erections happen. when you get one it's your actions that will either keep you out of trouble or get you in trouble. if he hasn't said anything so far I suspect you're worried for no reason. PROFESSIONAL massage therapists understand. I've kicked several guys out but it was their actions that got them booted, not an erection. one actually tried to touch my penis, another was moaning and grinding on my table. I told them to get dressed and get out.

I hope that helps. feel free to pm me if you want. I'll gladly talk more if you wish.

Steven

 

[KaraBulut]

I'm a licensed massage therapist. erections happen all of the time during a massage.... Also you could mention it to him before your next appointment. just a simple "I know you've noticed I get an erection. I'm sorry but it just happens. I'm not trying to make you uncomfortable or hint at anything. " ...

^QFT

It's normal but Georgiadude is right about being up front and discussing it. A professional massage therapist will be up front and say, "I don't do happy endings". When you bring the subject up, you let the therapist know that you got an erection, you're embarrassed about it but you're not looking for a handjob.

After it's discussed, you both can breathe a sigh of relief and you can both relax and enjoy the massage.

 

[WildOutside]

I'm a licensed massage therapist. erections happen all of the time during a massage. your body is responding to the touch. it's normal. as long as you keep yourself under control, there shouldn't be a problem. by that I mean no touching it unless you need to move it for comfort. a minor adjustment is ok. no moaning or other noises. that type of stuff will get you kicked out. if you just ignore it and act like it hasn't happened you'll be fine. Also you could mention it to him before your next appointment. just a simple "I know you've noticed I get an erection. I'm sorry but it just happens. I'm not trying to make you uncomfortable or hint at anything. " a professional massage therapist understands erections happen. when you get one it's your actions that will either keep you out of trouble or get you in trouble. if he hasn't said anything so far I suspect you're worried for no reason. PROFESSIONAL massage therapists understand. I've kicked several guys out but it was their actions that got them booted, not an erection. one actually tried to touch my penis, another was moaning and grinding on my table. I told them to get dressed and get out.

I hope that helps. feel free to pm me if you want. I'll gladly talk more if you wish.

Steven

Thank you! This is REALLY helpful.

 

[Georgiadude]

you're very welcome. glad I could help.

Steven

 

[Latimer]

I'd skip the "I'm sorry" part. Never be sorry about having an erection.

 

[agaig123]

God, what a relief...I have a female massage therapist, not attracted to her in anyway, but whenever she massages my legs I start to get hard. Not completely, but partially...it's mortifying. But I know enough that it's a reflect to touch and not sexual excitement.

 

[WildOutside]

God, what a relief...I have a female massage therapist, not attracted to her in anyway, but whenever she massages my legs I start to get hard. Not completely, but partially...it's mortifying. But I know enough that it's a reflect to touch and not sexual excitement.

Now you can just enjoy your massage and not think or worry about anything!

 

[KennyD]

I've done massage therapy for over 45 Years ... I've seen everything there is to see and possibly know as far as the male human body goes ...
It is very NORMAL to get an erection during a massage as it is a biological reaction to the intimacy and being touched ...

However; if you wish to NOT have an erection , just before you leave to go to the therapist ; MASTURBATE .. twice , if possible .... that MIGHT help control your erections .... as it has worked on some males ....

 

[radeon]

It has happened a couple of times to me also when they massage the front of my thighs. but I think not a big deal

 

[yhtang]

Happened to me many times before. I am totally naked during the massage, and when I get an erection, my masseur adjusts the towel to cover up my penis and he gets on with the job in hand.

Nothing is ever mentioned by either parties.