Erotic massage

[ivor-longhorn]

Here's a question that needs some background
I'm a 45yo bi guy happily married to a gorgeous woman and we have a really good sex life. Every now and then I get nostalgic and horny for the fun I used to have before I was married with other guys at uni. Often coming here and jerking off is enough to satisfy and keep me faithful but a couple of times away from home I've been tempted by the chance of a sensual tantric massage.

On both occasions the experience was intense and memorable and worth every bit I paid for it. I am content at the moment that this no-strings fun is good for my otherwise monogamous marriage (my wife knows I'm bi, but would not be OK with any sort of open relationship)

My question is, do you think I'm being fantastically naive? Am I on a slippery slope to more risky and emotionally dishonest hook-ups? How do other bi married guys manage their conflicting urges?

Also the masseurs I've been to seem legit, kind and sympathetic but the cynic in me wonders if I'm going to end up on some pervy livecam without my consent. How likely is that?

Sorry if this is a stream of consciousness. It's good to have a place to get it out there, and I'd be grateful for any sympathetic advice you might have

 

[BBCMike]

It's clear that you miss a "three leg" creature You aren't being naive at all.

Having a sensual massage is great, besides who offer that. Hands doesn't have a gender. I, as well, have a full body massage once a month from a lady professional masseuse.

About the cam you should be careful, take a look before you lie down, though if it is a professional studio it's hard to believe they can film they costumers.

 

[nedude]

I did the same today. I’m in the same boat and the same age. This was my first time. I couldn’t believe it. He rimmed the hell out of me and blew me. It was mind blowing and now I’m obsessed

 

[willhunt]

You sound conflicted. You should probably think this through. I'm straight, but I prefer a male therapist, a strong guy to just work the shit out of my muscles. I've never done a happy ending ever. Whatever you do, play safe because your wife deserves at least that.

 

[Pierresro]

Here's a question that needs some background
I'm a 45yo bi guy happily married to a gorgeous woman and we have a really good sex life. Every now and then I get nostalgic and horny for the fun I used to have before I was married with other guys at uni. Often coming here and jerking off is enough to satisfy and keep me faithful but a couple of times away from home I've been tempted by the chance of a sensual tantric massage.

On both occasions the experience was intense and memorable and worth every bit I paid for it. I am content at the moment that this no-strings fun is good for my otherwise monogamous marriage (my wife knows I'm bi, but would not be OK with any sort of open relationship)

My question is, do you think I'm being fantastically naive? Am I on a slippery slope to more risky and emotionally dishonest hook-ups? How do other bi married guys manage their conflicting urges?

Also the masseurs I've been to seem legit, kind and sympathetic but the cynic in me wonders if I'm going to end up on some pervy livecam without my consent. How likely is that?

Sorry if this is a stream of consciousness. It's good to have a place to get it out there, and I'd be grateful for any sympathetic advice you might have

In the late 1990´s I lived In South Florida and managed a masage Parlour a real one that did facials other services for men and women no happy endings . When someone called my company the phone rang in my house and I woudl send maseeuse etc to the persons hotel or home, I handled paying teh staff accounting ext. One nigth a guy called at 11pm and said he needed a massage with sex. I told him we have men and womeen and we do not do that. I said look I am not far from tyour hotel come to my place Ill get you off any way you want. He said I am not gay I said I am so if that bothers you bye. 15 minlater he called and said Illdrive over and see.... I said ok.

20 minutes later this hot guy 5 11 great as sarms bulge name it . I took him in one of my bedrooms where I had a table set up, He went to shower and when he came out said no gay stuff. I said listen I suck cock I have an ass ytou can fuck thats all I can do he said Ok Ill fuck you Igave him a condom laid down on my back Legs sspread and way back and he knelt and slid in. I had my handss massagin his ass he said fuck I like that girtls do that he was now close to me I started sucking his pecs and said use my mouth like pussy he did and shot this big load. He showered dressed said how much I said free you fuck good man!

 

[hadserub]

Everyone makes his own choice, and only you decide "to be o not to be." LOL. My friend regularly uses tantric massage in london. He vividly describes his feelings and says that these are two different things, sex with his wife and this service. As for me, this is veiled treason. I think you should talk to your wife and try to diversify your sex life in such a way that both of you plunge into the atmosphere of those times when you were young and loved to have fun. I'm sure that your wife also would like to diversify your intimate life and add some emotions and colores to your bed.

 

[lockeroomguy]

I'm a senior, and my wife lost interest in sex years ago. For me, erotic massage is a great way to relieve sexual tension without resorting to a guy on the side. It is a no stings attached arrangement, strictly business. There is no temptation to get more deeply involved. Looking forward to a sensual massage when covid ends.

 

[Newmercedes]

In the late 1990´s I lived In South Florida and managed a masage Parlour a real one that did facials other services for men and women no happy endings . When someone called my company the phone rang in my house and I woudl send maseeuse etc to the persons hotel or home, I handled paying teh staff accounting ext. One nigth a guy called at 11pm and said he needed a massage with sex. I told him we have men and womeen and we do not do that. I said look I am not far from tyour hotel come to my place Ill get you off any way you want. He said I am not gay I said I am so if that bothers you bye. 15 minlater he called and said Illdrive over and see.... I said ok.

20 minutes later this hot guy 5 11 great as sarms bulge name it . I took him in one of my bedrooms where I had a table set up, He went to shower and when he came out said no gay stuff. I said listen I suck cock I have an ass ytou can fuck thats all I can do he said Ok Ill fuck you Igave him a condom laid down on my back Legs sspread and way back and he knelt and slid in. I had my handss massagin his ass he said fuck I like that girtls do that he was now close to me I started sucking his pecs and said use my mouth like pussy he did and shot this big load. He showered dressed said how much I said free you fuck good man!

So Hot.... You won't see him again?