Escort for first time?

[OpenlyClosed]

I'm 30 and have been curious about being with a man for a long time. I have never acted on it out of a combination of denial and fear.

I would like to satisfy my curiosity, in a way that, if the reality doesn't do it for me, is easy to walk away from.

Thus, I've been thinking of hiring a male escort. There are a few here in LA that seem to be well regarded, and also that I find very hot.

So, what do people here think of this? Pros/cons? Anyone done this? What should I expect?

Thanks everyone.

 

[Just_Believe18]

I'm 30 and have been curious about being with a man for a long time. I have never acted on it out of a combination of denial and fear.

I would like to satisfy my curiosity, in a way that, if the reality doesn't do it for me, is easy to walk away from.

Thus, I've been thinking of hiring a male escort. There are a few here in LA that seem to be well regarded, and also that I find very hot.

So, what do people here think of this? Pros/cons? Anyone done this? What should I expect?

Thanks everyone.

I'm sure you will get some interesting advice here, but I would like to offer an alternative perspective.

There are a lot of guys out there who would love to get to know you for free. I would discourage anyone from having their first time be from hiring a person for sex. I'm assuming you are probably very much in the closet so meeting other guys publicly is probably not in your comfort zone like a bar or social networking event. Therefore, I recommend creating a profile online on a website like adam4adam or match.com (apparently, it's really gay lol). Put yourself out there. You can keep your face anonymous and share only what you feel comfortable in sharing. If your expectations are fair and realistic, you will find exactly what you are looking for. There are a lot of guys out there who would enjoy getting to know you. In fact, some guys even get off on the idea of being someone's first time.

Save your money. You will feel better about yourself being with someone who wants to be with you (without your wallet.)

 

[Lefty]

Open up boy....

Rent a Cock is just plain RENT a Cock.

It is not reality.

You pay and they do what you say....

pay and say... no play the day.

That's not a learning experience

anymore than reading the menu is

enjoying the meal.

FOLLOW the advice above...you can do it.

 

[Monsolmer]

Yes, recommend having an escort for your first time. I did. You're dealing with it on a professional basis. That may sound cold. But it lets you decide. When I did it with an escort, I'd never seen another guy's hard cock, or his hole. An escort let me explore, decide whether that was where I really wanted to go. In my case, this guy's cock was so thick that no way was it going to go up my virgin ass. But we had a great time. I've never looked back and now have a beautiful bf I can be totally free with.

 

[Telstra]

I'm 30 and have been curious about being with a man for a long time. I have never acted on it out of a combination of denial and fear.

I would like to satisfy my curiosity, in a way that, if the reality doesn't do it for me, is easy to walk away from.

Thus, I've been thinking of hiring a male escort. There are a few here in LA that seem to be well regarded, and also that I find very hot.

So, what do people here think of this? Pros/cons? Anyone done this? What should I expect?

Thanks everyone.

Remember, male escort is not your counselor.
If you don't regret spending the hard earn money, go for it.

 

[JRandell69]

Well if I was going to do it, I'd just take a really good look at the guys pictures. If the pictures don't really do anything for you, then he's not going to look any better once you meet him in person. He's going to look worse.

What if he shows up and you don't like him and don't have a good time?

I'm sure they're going to want to still be paid.

 

[OpenlyClosed]

Thanks everyone for the replies - I especially like that I'm getting both "yes" and "no" answers - it was exactly what I was hoping for.

Just to clarify for people, I've picked out two possible guys already if I go this route. Both are much, much hotter than the kind of guy that I think I'd be able to land on Adam4Adam or a similar site (at least in the photos, which I know are likely to overstate things).

I suppose what appeals to me the most about possibly going this way is what Monsolmer was talking about: when I'm paying, there's (hopefully) a lot more control over the pace of things than with someone who's there for the sex itself. Maybe not.

So I'm still on the fence, and will probably talk myself out of this plan, much like every other opportunity to explore that I've had since I was in high school...

EDIT: I should add that I found one of the two candidates, as it were, as "escort" listings on Adam4Adam.