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Ever had to knock someone out?

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Everybody has their boundaries & lines. When other people cross them, it's pushing their button.. making them EXPLODE & go INSANE. Yelling, cussing them out, even getting violent, physical, & dangerous. Question to you guys : Have you ever knocked someone out physically? And whats the story




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Recent experience Boyfriend & I are out at a club, dancing. Having fun & enjoying the night. We show a lot of PDA so it's pretty obvious we're a couple and together. We go outside in the smoking patio, and meet some pretty cool people. And talk to a couple of them. I even introduced them to my BF *AS* my BF. One of them, however (sober) wants my man because his motto is

"I get what I want, when I want... no matter what, EVEN if they're in a relationship & off limits"

I sensed it immediately but didn't say anything. Not a big problem. It'll start becoming one though, if he crosses the line. So a few minutes past by, and I noticed that he's becoming RIDICULOUSLY flirtatious with my boyfriend. (Even when I made it pretty clear that my BF is taken by holding him intimately & introducing him as my BF) but that didn't matter to him. I asked him politely to stop. He didn't.. Soon after, he follows us (yep) to the dancefloor and *tries* to dance my BF very roughly. Grinding & being nasty. Real nastyyy. BF looks at me like he's really uncomfortable, but he's the nice-guy type who won't do anything. I, on the other hand will do something about it. Boy was I PISSED the f**k off, upset, and just really hostile towards this person. Usually, I'm the type of person to stay away from violence & getting physical but this boy had just CROSSED THE LINE. even when asked politely to stop & leave us alone. So I threw a nice punch, got to see some blood, and told him "YOU GOT WHAT YOU DESERVED". It was so hard, that it knocked him out for a couple of seconds, then he regained conscious. I got kicked out my security guards right away, but it felt good leaving.... feeling justified.


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Then, I thought to myself... a lot of gay guys are like this, sluts and bigtime whores. (LGBT community is known for that) It's okay to be that, not a problem.. but when they go pursuing a person ALREADY in a relationship (and knowingly), thats when it becomes a BIG PROBLEM. Not to hate on the community or anything, but does anyone else feel the same way Sometimes? Abslutely disgusted & dissapointed by these kind of people. It's such a shame our community has a ridiculous amount of homewreckers. Same goes to the straight community, or homewreckers in general.

(by the way, if anybody's curious... this is the Westhollywood scene, out here in Los Angeles, california)
 
you have no idea how many times i've seen stuff like that happen in west hollywood. the gays in boystown are unlike the rest of us because it's such a mecca, lines of decency and respect are almost unheard of there. i think in the construct of your situation, i'm going to assume you had a couple of drinks under your belt. you might have gone a little far... after all, dancing is just dancing. it means absolutely nothing. the verbal flirting on the patio is something else entirely though.

i'm a pacifist too. i really don't believe in violence at all, but if i were in the same position i probably would have done the same thing. my boyfriend would probably have danced back haha. consider yourself lucky i guess; you don't have an assult charge and your boyfriend played the victim card righteously.
 
You didn't end the story. Did your boyfriend leave when you got thrown out or did he stay and dance? After a while a lot of couples stop going to the cruisey pick up spots. Shouldn't have to be that way.
 
I don't care for violence but I'm thinking what you did was awesome. You put him in his place and maybe he'll reconsider before trying that again, haha.

Your boyfriend needs to learn to take care of himself in a situation like that though. What would happen if you weren't there? Even if he's loyal he would end up dancing there awkwardly with this guy he had no interest in?
 
Never had to cross that line.

I never had this specific thing happen to me, but I had something vaguely similar. I had a guy hitting on ME, and saying he was gonna get me drunk and have sex with ME. What's so bad about that? The guy was currently dating my ex. And the ex was right there the entire time.

I had told him I wasn't drinking, but he wasn't having any of that. He proceeded to buy me drinks, which sat on the table. "You're not drinking your drinks," he said. "They're not mine," I countered. "I didn't order them." He eventually gave that up, and we hit the dancefloor (with the ex). Guy kept grinding up against me, so I started talking with my ex. "This guy looks like he's hitting on me. Even though he's supposedly with you. Isn't that kind of pathetic?" My ex laughed, and the guy finally skulked off.

Lex
 
soreknees said:
You didn't end the story. Did your boyfriend leave when you got thrown out or did he stay and dance? After a while a lot of couples stop going to the cruisey pick up spots. Shouldn't have to be that way.
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Yeah he left right after, he wouldn't stay. He was shocked cause I turned into a something he's never seen before. a dangerous, vicious, VIOLENT mutha f***ker. And this is coming from someone whose calm. Actually, I think he got a little scared. I'm surprised at myself too. It was like a volcano erupting in less then 30 minutes... anger & tension building up slowly, then finally EXPLODING! i got REAL furious. People like that PISS me off, and the general public. Homewreckers in general need to be KNOCKED OUT sometimes, to learn from them and STOP! Some don't learn though.


... But I told him, people like that get what they deserve. Some people out there think "Oh I'll do what I want, what's he gonna do about it?". Cause some guys have ridiculous egos, thinking the other guy isn't gonna stand up or put him in his place. Wrong.

I actually think a LOT of gay guys/people, need to be doing this more. I see this sh*t happen in the clubs kinda a lot, and people let it slide.... Allll the time. Sure, the whole "I don't wanna cause a scene, no drama okay?" mentality is okay.... but at the same time, sometimes you just GOTTA stand up for yourself and what you believe in. It's IMPORTANT to put people in their place, even if it means getting physical and seeing blood.





G-Lexington said:
Never had to cross that line.

I never had this specific thing happen to me, but I had something vaguely similar. I had a guy hitting on ME, and saying he was gonna get me drunk and have sex with ME. What's so bad about that? The guy was currently dating my ex. And the ex was right there the entire time.

I had told him I wasn't drinking, but he wasn't having any of that. He proceeded to buy me drinks, which sat on the table. "You're not drinking your drinks," he said. "They're not mine," I countered. "I didn't order them." He eventually gave that up, and we hit the dancefloor (with the ex). Guy kept grinding up against me, so I started talking with my ex. "This guy looks like he's hitting on me. Even though he's supposedly with you. Isn't that kind of pathetic?" My ex laughed, and the guy finally skulked off.

Lex
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Wow, what a weird situtation! How is it with the ex? I'm sure, if you have any feelings for him whatsoever, that it would hurt to see him with someone else. I know I would. Or are you 110% completely over him, so it didn't hurt (emotionally wise) ?

who knows, maybe it was a setup and the ex sent him... to get ya alll jealous. I don't mean to be paranoid or to over-analyze things, but sometimes its important to be aware of things ya know?
 
I was out partying with a very good friend and his new girlfriend, who I had only just met and was a total sweetheart. We all loved her and thought she was great and the best thing for him. We've never approved of one of his girls before AT ALL, and she got a 100% approval rating.

So we're out at this bar, and he invited an old girlfriend to the bar! And breaks the heart of his new girl. Mind you, he's so piss drunk that he can hardly stand up straight.

I told him I was giving him to the count of 5 to make it right and apologize to her, or I was gonna deck him. I counted to 5, and he just stared at me because he knows very well that I've never, ever hit anyone out of anger. Never.

When I got to 5, I popped him right in the jaw. He fell over..prolly cuz he was so surprised, it's not like I really hit him that hard.

He apologized the next day though, for making me hit him. And to her, and they're living together now happily ever after. Glad I did it.
 
>>>Wow, what a weird situtation! How is it with the ex? I'm sure, if you have any feelings for him whatsoever, that it would hurt to see him with someone else. I know I would. Or are you 110% completely over him, so it didn't hurt (emotionally wise) ?

I was over him. In fact, he invited me to the bar to meet this "great new guy", so I was well aware that I was going to meet him with somebody new. The awkward part was that I had promised myself that I wasn't going to do the jealous ex-boyfriend thing of thinking "what's he doing with that jerk, I'm so much better". But, as it turns out, the guy WAS a jerk. Not only did my ex deserve better, but EVERYBODY did. :)

We're still friends, although we don't talk much anymore. We just kinda drifted apart. He lives 2000 miles away, and isn't too big on returning e-mails or facebook or anything. He's supposedly in a LTR now, although I haven't heard any details.

Lex
 
I've never been in that situation, and neither my bf nor me would hurt a fly, lol. But if I was your boyfriend I'd feel really proud of you, since you reacted to defend him, and to defend what you feel as yours. I think that shows how much you care about you two.
 
You could have just left without clocking the guy couldn't you ? There's no need for violence in that sort of situation, and I don't approve. You ended up leaving the club as it was anyways only this way you were forced to leave. This happened once at a club with my bf where two old guys were hitting on me and he simply told me it was time for us to leave and we did. When guys have hit on him I've looked them in the eye, said he's taken and walked away, when they see my boyfriend reject them the same as I did it's usually such a blow to their egos they don't need to be socked in the face.

Yeah, a lot of times I feel like I wanna deck someone but I like to think as humans we've gone beyond that.
 
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