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Excuse the bluntness....

Everybody is different in what they like to do and when they're ready to do it. Explore what you want to try when you're ready, and discover what you like and what you don't. Hopefully your relationship with the bf will be such that you will allow each other to learn these lessons and respect each other's choices and timetables.
 
Adidasluvr said:
Anal sex is not the most prefered sexual activity for most gay men. Most prefer oral sex and mutual masturbation.
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I'd like to know your source for that. First I've ever heard that, and far from what I've experienced. I think you're totally off base there.
 
Originally Posted by Adidasluvr
There have been repeated large sample surveys dating from the seventies and the last one I saw published was from only a few years ago. HIV has seen the popularity of anal sex diminish over that time. Whilst around 80-90% of gay men have tried anal sex it is the most common sexual activity for less than 50% of gay men (across repeated surveys). I cant be bothered posting a source, mostly cause I'd have to go looking for an online reference whereas I've read these surveys in published (paper) journals; and besides countless jubbers have proved they cant read scientific literature anyway.
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Actually; I have also read a similar article a couple of years ago and I believe that it was in Men's Health ; although I am not certain ....
 
Give anal a try as botha top and bottom. Use lots of lube and take your time. Buy one of those dildos which is a long cone shape, very narrow at the end and gets large at the base. Use it to stretch your hole and as foreplay. If you are going to share the toys with your friends, use a condom on them.
 
eddee, thanks for those erotic kisses. everybody's all over the spectrum on anal, as well as many other things. as for your reaction and first time, you could have been anxious. if you feel you''d like to try again, by all means, if you're with a person you have the desire to try it with. and if not, then don't. it's not a requirement.
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I'm much more of a cock sucker than a butt fucker.

I like anal sex if I'm in the mood for it, and as you do it more you get better at it and it starts being really good.. when your'e in the mood for it.

Adidas is right.. more people prefer oral to anal.
 
eddee0404 said:
however i wasn't amazingly keen on 'taking it' as such.
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Not many guys are their first time. The first time I tried it was a complete disaster and I swore I'd never do it again. In fact I was afraid to for a few years after that. Even had a boyfriend who broke up with me eventually because he wanted to do it all the time and I didn't (basically I told him if he wanted to f*** to go find somebody else). But I eventually ended up in a relationship with someone who was caring and willing to go slow. Truthfully, we started out with fingers and small vibrators first, then eventually got used to the anal thing. But it's not something we did every time. Sometimes we were in the mood for it, sometimes not. Like a couple of others have said, I'm perfectly happy with oral/frottage/mutual masturbation/etc. and just rubbing bodies together in general.

It's just something you have to slowly get used to, but once you do it can feel really good, despite how uncomfortable it is at first.

And why does it say this guy's banned? Are we wasting our breath?

Oh well, maybe it will be beneficial for someone else.
 
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