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Basically, my drunk roommate (or so he told me) cam home and started bombarding me with questions like "how come you don't go out" or "I don't see you with any girls...blah blah". And then started to ask me to show him my porn - he kept insisting although I continued to say that it's "not the type you would like". He then predicted that it was gay porn and asked me if I was gay, said yes and asked me if I ever fooled around with another guy (yes) and wanted me to suck his cock. After several years of abstinence, I was horny as hell so I started to suck him. He fucked me and afterwards, was sucking him off again. After awhile of licking his balls, I was bored (and unattracted to him) and went to the restroom to brush my teeth. He proceeded to tell me that he's mainly attracted to girls and wanted to hook me up with some girl and blah blah. Being the polite gay guy that I am, said "no thanks."

The thing is, I didn't realize what I had agreed to until it was finished. I had to drive around for awhile to really absorb in what happened. This similar scenario is seen in gay porn all the time, but I never expected to happen to me in real life. Although I can't really complain since I'm moving out and he left for summer break today (I think), I wished I was more attracted to him though. It would've been a hell of a ride of I thought he was hot.
 
No replies? I can't imagine it to be very common but has anyone experienced something similar?
 
I always dream that something like that would happen to me. But yeah it would've been much better if he was attractive. Why exactly weren't you attracted to him? Is he ugly?
 
He's not unattractive. I just didn't find him attracted and I need chemistry to keep sex going. And I'm sure that he is" mostly into girls" because he's brought several girls to the apartment (one lived with us for a half year) and he's fucked them, telling from their screams. I got my rocks off so I should be happy. I guess I just wanted more, someone I found attractive. Now, that's probably what you would only see in movies.
 
I agree with you. If you dont find him attracted then don't waste your time. Dignity is something I totally agree in. The fact that he is straight and just want to satisfy his horniness doesn't mean you have to agree to his request.
 
Dude,

Caving in to his demands was something that you are now kinda regretting.

Learn from this experience and stick with your guns. Don't let anyone bully you into anything. But if you agree to suck on his dick, get fucked and lick his balls, there is little point in telling us that you lacked the chemistry later on... makes very little sense.

The scenario is pretty common. Yet, you want always to think twice about hooking up with the dudes you live with or work with. It is far more complicated to put an end to your little affair, once those dudes are always around you.

So, what do you really do? Roommate or no roommate?

You get going and you get yourself a real life. A BF or a buddy or two. Few cool gay dudes to hang out with and a good, fulfilling sex life that suits your tastes and your ideas. (The word here being 'your'.)

You never allow to be stuck in a sexless rut in your age for a year, so that any half-way aggressive talk gets you down on your knees and with your feet in the air, if you are catching my drift:)

Good Luck...

SC
 
Thanks SC. You brought up the meat of the problem. It has been 6 years since I had sex (and that was only experimenting) so I guess this incident was my real devirgination.

I'm moving out soon and he slept somewhere else for the past couple of nights (presumably with his GF) so continuing the act isn't the problem.

The problem is finding a sex life in a small town and when you're a graduate student. Seriously, I don't have time to do anything but study and think about my thesis.

Thanks for the kind words and advice.
 
As complicated as it is to hook up with people you know, affairs with strangers aren't any easier.

Still, a big issue with fantasies is that they never quite work out the way we want them too. The stories you read online are a diversion, like tv or books, and can't be lived out all the time by everyone who reads them.

I can relate to your experience. We all get horny and just want to mess around with whomever is immediately present and willing. But you learned a valuable lesson, and I'm sure you remind yourself about your impulsive experience now when you're feeling that way again.

You have sexual needs, and deciding how to fulfill them and maintain your dignity is the real issue. Do you want a boyfriend? A friend with benefits? Explore the gay scene a bit more?

Don't push things away until you get so overwhelmed you'll act in a way you regret.
 
I wish My best friend would ask me to suck his cock, lordknows I've asked to to many times before!
 
any pictures to go along with this story??? lol

:)
 
tila123 said:
any pictures to go along with this story??? lol

:)
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No! It would be my worst nightmare if there were pics circulating around campus. Well, it might let other gay guys know that I'm available ;)
 
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