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Fallen in love with someone online???

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I have had 2 online experiences. The first wqas almost 6 years ago. We wre bf's for 5 and a half years until he dumped me this past July. Met a new man in October, and this is an even better love affair. We talk online everyday and on the phone before we go to bed! We are planning on being together for 15 days next February. He is the love of my life!
 
I have had many online relationships, but I only fell in love once. The relationship lasted less than a year and we don't speak anymore. He said that I changed, but the truth was, we we're both going through some issues at home and that arguement just came at the wrong time. We might even still be together if it had not happened.
 
Yeah, distance is a problem a lot. Look, if the relationship is meant to be, then you two will meet one day and you will see how things really are between you and him. Keep this "online relationship" going for as long as u can. Chances are 7 times out of 10 that the guy is dating someone in real life. I know, I know you are "sure" that he isn't dating someone else... but he most likely is. And like the other guy said, he could be showing you pictures of another person and saying that its them. So that is another factor also.
 
Yes! And I met him right here on JUB. We've been together since September 2005.
 
I made the mistake of falling for someone online. Here on JUB no less. I came away from the whole thing feeling like a complete fool and it is not a mistake I will make again.
 
Yes, but online men are real life men that you see on the street. Almost every hot man has a computer with internet access, so an online man could be a club man, or a bar man or a met him in traffic or at the supermarket man.

The only thing with traditional online men is that most just want quick, no strings sex.
 
Never!!:eek:

i need to be close to the person (place). other way don't work for me.
 
This brings a question to mind - what does being "in love" mean?

Do I think I've fallen in love with someone I met online? Yes. And I met him in person as well. He lived there, I lived here, we had a great weekend together and after that we both had to go back to our lives. Which frankly left me feeling very empty and lost. For a long time.

This is why I avoid netships although I'd be a liar if I said that it hasn't happened again; caring for someone I talk to over the computer.

I'm currently avoiding a personal meet because I know it'll fucking happen again. I 'fall in love' very easily, see..... and I'm not putting myself through that shit again, I'm just not.
 
Yeah, that whole online relationship thing never works.

I used to play this online game late at night. Quite often, when I played, I'd see this other guy playing, too. We were both quite good, and often finished 1-2. We occasionally would "chat" in the chat window, and he was stunned when I told him I was gay. He was gay, too. We flirted a bit, but we obviously weren't going to get into a relationship - that whole online relationship thing never works.

But after exchanging chats, and e-mails, he finally asked if I'd be willing to give him my phone number. And, after a lot of hemming and hawing, I did. He called me. I answered the phone by saying, "This better be good." We had a laugh about that. And laughed about this being the next step, since that whole online relationship thing never works.

We started talking on the phone quite a bit. Every day. For hours. About everything. We didn't have that much in common, but we did share a rather wry outlook on the world at large. The phone bills were piling up. He said, "I could possibly save money if I just came out and saw you." I thought about it quite a bit, and finally I agreed to see him, but only if he stayed at a hotel. After all, that whole online relationship thing never works.

He came to visit. His pictures didn't lie. He was average, like me. I took him to dinner, then back to my place to chat. We ended up in bed. He never did get a hotel. Ah well. It was a quick thing. I certainly wasn't going to fall in love. After all, that whole online relationship thing never works.

I took him to the airport, and after dropping him off, I drove home...and cried on the way. Damnit, I was falling in love with this guy...and there's no way he felt the same way. But on our next phone call, I admitted that I had cried on the way home. "Don't feel bad," he said. "I cried the whole flight home."

I visited him once more, then he took the big plunge - he moved 2000 miles to live in my city. We weren't going to live together, though - that whole online relationship thing never works.

But, as it ends up, my lease was up at the same time he moved out here. So we got a place together. Knowing full way it would never ever last, since that whole online relationship thing never works.

That was nine years ago. We've got a condo together now. And we'll be the first to tell you - that whole online relationship thing never works.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
Yeah, that whole online relationship thing never works.

I used to play this online game late at night. Quite often, when I played, I'd see this other guy playing, too. We were both quite good, and often finished 1-2. We occasionally would "chat" in the chat window, and he was stunned when I told him I was gay. He was gay, too. We flirted a bit, but we obviously weren't going to get into a relationship - that whole online relationship thing never works.

But after exchanging chats, and e-mails, he finally asked if I'd be willing to give him my phone number. And, after a lot of hemming and hawing, I did. He called me. I answered the phone by saying, "This better be good." We had a laugh about that. And laughed about this being the next step, since that whole online relationship thing never works.

We started talking on the phone quite a bit. Every day. For hours. About everything. We didn't have that much in common, but we did share a rather wry outlook on the world at large. The phone bills were piling up. He said, "I could possibly save money if I just came out and saw you." I thought about it quite a bit, and finally I agreed to see him, but only if he stayed at a hotel. After all, that whole online relationship thing never works.

He came to visit. His pictures didn't lie. He was average, like me. I took him to dinner, then back to my place to chat. We ended up in bed. He never did get a hotel. Ah well. It was a quick thing. I certainly wasn't going to fall in love. After all, that whole online relationship thing never works.

I took him to the airport, and after dropping him off, I drove home...and cried on the way. Damnit, I was falling in love with this guy...and there's no way he felt the same way. But on our next phone call, I admitted that I had cried on the way home. "Don't feel bad," he said. "I cried the whole flight home."

I visited him once more, then he took the big plunge - he moved 2000 miles to live in my city. We weren't going to live together, though - that whole online relationship thing never works.

But, as it ends up, my lease was up at the same time he moved out here. So we got a place together. Knowing full way it would never ever last, since that whole online relationship thing never works.

That was nine years ago. We've got a condo together now. And we'll be the first to tell you - that whole online relationship thing never works.

Lex
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Lex, you're missing the point... you didn't fall in love online. As you wrote it... it was after the whole chat thing.....;)
 
Yes. I'm currently letting reality set back in that he will never feel the same way about me.

We had been talking for about two weeks before I wasn't able to get him out my head. All day every day just waiting until I could talk to him again. When I really started to flirt with him he told me about his boyfriend...

Sucks. I know his boyfriend. Every time he talks about him coming to visit him on a forum it just really hurts. I do want him to be happy but I can't help but think about his BF getting hit by car.

We haven't talked one on one in about 3 weeks & I miss him.
 
I recently had a date with a guy I met online. It was a huge disappointment, he was nothing like I thought (both looks and especially personality). He even tried to convince me to eventually have sex with him. I was literally disgusted by him.
 
I loved re-reading Lex's post. The crying part was so sweet. Awwww. *sniff*

He went about it the right way. It just sort of developed naturally.

The problem with many guys is they "meet" someone online and start calling him his "boyfriend" right away! WTF?! No, that is not a boyfriend. Lex didn't do it that way.
 
KaraBulut said:
What? Mods aren't good enough for ya? :grrr:
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LOL... I may have went a little overboard with the alco when I wrote that. But hmmm... power is an aphrodisiac! ;)


...but I'm willing to spread some x-mas love: get yourself and the rest of the Mods to send me naked pics and we'll talk! hehe :kiss:
 
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