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Feeling embarrased for meeting again after sex

Sammael

Sammael

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I feel like I have two different lives. One is my normal everyday life, and the other is my sex life. When I meet a guy, have sex, and he calls me to meet again, I don't want to see him because I feel embarrased.

For example awhile ago I met a guy and we had great sex. During the sex I got carried away and did things like licking his feet, telling him to grab my butt, moaning while he was fucking me etc. Now I feel like when he sees me again, he will remember those things and my naked body so I will feel embarrased if I meet him again.

Is there a way to be comfortable enough to not feel embarrased with what I do during sex so I can meet a guy again after I had sex?

By the way I never had a long term serious relationship but I think I will feel even worse when I have one since he will know even more about my sex life than other guys I've met.
 
How old are you, if I may ask?

What do you have to be embarrased about? You BOTH had sex, saw each other, did things to each other, and obviously enjoyed it. Are you ashamed of your body, or the things you did? As far as your body, dont be....nice ass btw. And since you engaged in sex, he obviously didnt have a problem with your body. If your ashamed of the things you did, why did you do them? Sounds like you had a great time, thats a good thing.

Maybe if you explain a little more about your feelings?

Lighten up, enjoy yourself, and stop doubting yourself.
 
I'm 27 years old but my English may suck a bit since it's not my native language.

Feeling ashamed of being seen naked is not about how it looks like. I mean you see in the movies where an ugly horny guy accidently sees a beautiful girl naked and the girl feel ashamed whenever he sees that guy even though she knows that the guy likes his body. It's a bit about privacy I guess. I'm more ashamed of the sex though even when there isn't anything weird.
 
I think one thing that is mising from the discussion is that Sammael is from a middle eastern country where men don't see each other naked often like in the west. And homosexuality is very frowned upon.
 
Yes I'm from Turkey but I have been bisexual(mostly interested in guys) for a long time and I'm used to it. If there's anything that makes a difference, it must be subconscious.
 
I'd say break down the barriers between your two worlds. That doesn't mean you have to tell the world that you had sex with this guy. But if you meet the guy again, and you can have a word with him in semi-private, just smile and say "Just wanted to say thanks. I had fun last night." And leave it at that. It may sound phony and forced at first - lots of things do. But it acknowledges (to him) that yes, you had sex with him, and yes, you enjoyed it. :)

Lex
 
Sammael said:
Yes I'm from Turkey but I have been bisexual(mostly interested in guys) for a long time and I'm used to it. If there's anything that makes a difference, it must be subconscious.
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The guy I am seeing about once a week is a real nice guy, about 50 and very sexy, we have a real good time but once we are done we have absolutely nothing to talk about. Probably has something to do with the fact that it was always about sex from the very beginning.
 
Sam ... :wave:

It's not really a question about what the other Guy might think, it's about what YOU think about Yourself! "Guilt" is one thing, "Embarrassment" is something quite different! !oops!

Yeah! HE now "Knows" about You! But, YOU also "Know" about Him, too! You're both on Equal "Footing"! There isn't anything that You need to "hide" from each other anymore! You've already crossed that bridge more than adequately! ..|

As has been said, "Own It!", "Walk Tall!", and feel Blessed that You've been so open, and accepting of, someone else! Grant THEM the same acceptance/recognition that You so desire Yourself! (group)

See them again! Talk to them again! Even have sex with them again, if you wish! They ALREADY "Know"! Consider that a "Good Thing"! Do NOT Retreat from them! Odds are, they will not "understand" your negative reaction, any way! They will, likely, take it "wrong", and feel "less" about themselves. Do you really want to send them That message? :slap:

Be BOLD enough to Do what YOU really Want! We only have ONE LIFE! RELAX! Go with the "Flow"! And, ENJOY Yourself to the MAX!! (!w!)

Of course ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!! :kiss: (*8*)
Chaz ;-)
 
are you embarrassed that your ass is displayed on here for everyone to see?

if you were good, don't feel embarrassed, feel proud and carry one like you mean it!
 
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