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Feelings for girls

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I'm going to answer your question with a question: When you see a hot man do you want to make out with him?

I think we can all appreciate an attractive woman and we're brought up with wanting romance - it's what we observed so I see nothing wrong with your feelings.
 
then you're gay.

who cares about wanting pretty girl friends and romanticizing straight relationships in your mind if you'll never have one?
 
Mate...that happened to me when I finally admitted to myself I was gay...I started noticing the beauty of women. And then I worked out what it was.

Finally I could see women for what they are - beautiful, soft, delicate, and amazing people. They were no longer a burden that I was going to have to force myself to love or be with...or to lie to. I stopped seeing them as a part of my life that I wanted to deny...and finally saw them for who they were. And then I was able to stop trying to convince myself to fall in love with them...

Maybe that weight has been lifted of your shoulders too.
 
tallguy297 said:
Mate...that happened to me when I finally admitted to myself I was gay...I started noticing the beauty of women. And then I worked out what it was.

Finally I could see women for what they are - beautiful, soft, delicate, and amazing people. They were no longer a burden that I was going to have to force myself to love or be with...or to lie to. I stopped seeing them as a part of my life that I wanted to deny...and finally saw them for who they were. And then I was able to stop trying to convince myself to fall in love with them...

Maybe that weight has been lifted of your shoulders too.
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This is one of the best posts I've seen in a while.
 
I've been Gay and known I was for as long as I can remember, I have never had any sexual attraction to females. However some of my best friends are female, some are very attractive, one tried to convert me. So no it's not strange at all.

To be sure you are Gay you have to know you fancy men. Think of your j/o fantasies, they are a good indication. Being Gay doesn't just mean you haven't found a woman you want to have sex with.
 
I have feelings for girls, too. But not in that way.

Two of my closest friends (who are also my roommates) are female and I love them both dearly. And yes, I think they're beautiful. There are several women I think are beautiful. I just don't look at them in a sexual way. When it comes to romance and cuddling and yes, sex, I want a man.

I even went through that familiar phase of trying to pretend I'm something I'm not and sought out a female to be intimate with (quite a while ago after my first boyfriend and I broke up) because I was sort of rebelling. Maybe trying to prove something to myself, I don't know. In denial, I guess. And I got myself into the situation I was seeking. But when it came right down to it - when I was faced with the actual touching and close contact - I couldn't do it. It just wasn't there for me. And that's when I realized it was just time to accept it.

There's nothing wrong with having feelings for women. It doesn't mean you're messed up in the head or anything. I think that happens to all of us. And Tallguy is right... when you can come to terms with yourself, that's when you can accept these feelings you have.
 
I think it's something in the air..... ;) :D

Seriously though, very recently I had to go through that with myself (again!) - so Tallguy, your post really helps me too!!! Fanks!
 
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