The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    To register, turn off your VPN; you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • Hi Guest - Did you know?
    Hot Topics is a Safe for Work (SFW) forum.

Feminine Men

C

CardiacNurseDylan

Joined
Feb 21, 2025
Posts
14
Reaction score
1
Points
3
Location
New Jersey
Hey there guys. I was just curious. When it comes to relationships, for those Feminine Men out there (yes the ones who do enjoy wearing feminine clothing, have a soft voice, and very smooth skin etc.) what qualities or characteristics would your potential partner or someone who is interested in you, need to show, provide, or gain in order for you to give them a chance to get to know you? What do you prefer?
 
First and foremost, I am going to suggest that you need to be clearly interested in them as a complete person and not just a fetish if you are looking for the healthiest relationship.

Although there may be some feminine young ones out there who only really want to be fetishized and treated like a Real Doll

Some might be looking for a nurturer and some might be looking for a strong man.

You'll know once you get to know the person better what they are looking for.
 
rareboy said:
First and foremost, I am going to suggest that you need to be clearly interested in them as a complete person and not just a fetish if you are looking for the healthiest relationship.

Although there may be some feminine young ones out there who only really want to be fetishized and treated like a Real Doll

Some might be looking for a nurturer and some might be looking for a strong man.

You'll know once you get to know the person better what they are looking for.
Click to expand...

Of course! Unfortunately, websites that display a great deal of sexual promiscuity, have placed such words such as Femboy, TS, or Feminine Men, as a sort of Fetishized Stigma. And that is wrong. Ultimately, it is as you just said. Being interested in them as a complete person and not a Fetish is the most important aspect of a healthy relationship. Personally, I haven't looked up anything of that nature since I was a teenager. Even when I was a teenager, I have always been respectful of individuals, regardless of color, creed, sexuality, gender etc. I have been a strong supporter of LGBTQ+ and of Pride Movements for many, many years.

For me, I am not interested in intimacy in the very beginning. I want a genuine relationship. One that includes taking our time, truly learning about one another, and having a genuine connection. Don't get me wrong. Sex is enjoyable, but it is only enjoyable if both parties are equally, physically and emotionally into it. If one isn't, then it isn't worth it. And I am not interested in any sexual relationship until I know for a fact that the individual and I have the same goals, ambitions in life, the same level of trust, respect, and care. I will not be sleeping with someone until after at least a year of being in a relationship with them. Simple as that. But I do understand what you mean. Some might be interested in a Strong Man, a Nurturer, and while some may indeed be interested in being fetishized as a Real Doll that is not what I am looking for and I refuse to fall into that line of thinking. But I genuinely thank you for taking this time and opportunity to answer my question.
 
I don't get the waiting a year thing at all.

What a waste.

We are sexual beings.

I fucked on the first date.

And one of them, 44 years ago has been my partner ever since.

Don't expect young guys to miss out on the fun waiting for a platonic relationship to bloom into passion.
 
Almost the same, but it was the second date, and then no turning back.
So many men are looking for Mr Right. You think you've found him but next week there is something tastier in the shop window and then next month and next year.
If he loves you, that is all you need. He will not be perfect, nobody is, no need to overthink it, there is the rest of your lives to sort out the details.
 
I guess my problem is that I'm not satisfied where I am yet in my life. Career wise, body wise etc.. I am actively losing weight, trying to get back into shape, and trying to finish my education and get the career going etc... So that I can actually have something to offer.
 
That is not what it is all about.

You seem to be trapped in some kind of idealized, heteronormative 1950's idea of what life should look like.

Get out there. Enjoy, Enjoy because you will never get younger, you will never be satisfied with your weight, your career with anything. These will always just be reasons not to get on with living.

While you are wasting time trying to build your idea of a more perfect you, you are likely missing out on connecting with someone who would just be happy with you as you are.
 
rareboy said:
That is not what it is all about.

You seem to be trapped in some kind of idealized, heteronormative 1950's idea of what life should look like.

Get out there. Enjoy, Enjoy because you will never get younger, you will never be satisfied with your weight, your career with anything. These will always just be reasons not to get on with living.

While you are wasting time trying to build your idea of a more perfect you, you are likely missing out on connecting with someone who would just be happy with you as you are.
Click to expand...
Very true
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top