first butt sex - what to expect?

[gspelgspel]

me - mostly str8:him - gay bottom
Gotten a couple very nice bj from him - now i think he wants it up his butt.
what should i expect? (other than wearing a rubber.)
is lube always needed ? do i need to finger him?
should i let him guide?
what position is easiest for a nervous beginner? i'm thinking doggie style - him bent over the side of the bed.

should it be a tighter fit than pussy?

help! nervous 1st timer here.

 

[looseliam]

Ask him what he needs before you stick it in.

 

[tristanrichie]

Lube, spit, pre-cum, whatever, it definitely helps. The anus is not self-lubricating and any help it can get while you pound away is welcome.

What should you expect? Great passionate sex! Of course! And make sure you're both squeaky clean, after all the ass isn't the cleanest thing in the world...

Fingering is GREAT! It loosens up the sphincter and can be great for foreplay. Rimming is great too, just whatever you're both comfortable with. Just lube up your finger before sticking it in.

Always let the bottom guide. He is letting you in his ass after all. The bottom should always be in control. Make sure he's comfortable (pillows, etc.) and make sure he's not in pain.

If he's an experienced bottom, doggie might be the best route. However, he may not enjoy doggie style. Ask him first. Doggie can be painful if the cock and ass involved don't fit in that position. For example, I can take it doggie because my BF's cock curves upward, but he can't take it from me because mine curves slightly downwards.

I personally enjoy missionary. It's intimate and you can look at each other's faces.

And yes, an ass is way tighter than a pussy (normally).

Whichever position you choose, go slow at first, keep his needs in mind, then you can let loose! Let your passions take over!

Let me know if you have any more concerns and keep me posted on how it goes!

~Tristan~

 

[ThreeCrows]

There's a sticky that KaraBulut put up in H&W that might be helpful:

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showpost.php?p=5263237&postcount=2

 

[lambdaboy]

Lube take your time slowly going in and if you want to show how much you are enjoying it kiss nibble on his ear and neck you wont believe the ride man!

Let us know how it was.

 

[possum]

im with tristanrichie on this one
and let me add Your gonna like it

 

[bike10]

Take time first to so some foreplay. You and partner shower together get those asses good and clean. Besure you clean out ass before you do anal.

Next head to bed and assume the positon of 69 you can enjoy each others bodies from head to toe and in between.

Let your master take time to play with ass hole with dildo or couple of fingers. Lube is important use plenty and most of all don't forget condoms. There may some pain at first but once he has entered relax and enjoy the pleasure of man to man action.

 

[Sam Blum]

I was given a book called either The gay Kamasutra, or the Kamasutra for Gay Men, or something like that. It was really well written, informative to say the very least. It tells you pretty much everything that you would need or want to know to feel very confident and to be safe and to be a good lover. Have fun!

 

[TylerDurden222]

post pics so we can correct your technique

 

[alli-berri]

post pics so we can correct your technique

LOL, yep - only reason I'd want pics. ...