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First Gay Experience... Not That Great

uptightguy said:
Man chats up boyish-guy, making it REALLY clear he's gay--how nice
Man takes boyish-guy home--ok
Man puts hand on his thigh--all is well
Man's hand drifts up to crotch--no worries
Man's hand wonders over cock and starts rubbing--Oh my gawd, this dude's an old perv.


Something is wrong here.
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As I understood it xdriver995 started feeling uncomfortable when he started rubbing his cock... Surely that mans not an old perv because of it. Lets face it, who wouldn't go forward when an hot boy is sitting beside you at your place and doesn't mind you keeping your hand on his thigh...

xdriver995 is one experience wiser and knows he has to tell he doesn't want anything else happening. After all they were heading for a coffee shop in the first place.
 
Hey X,

Mate... firstly congrats on being honest with this guy...twice! Coming out to anyone is a big step and you were right to feel proud of that.

You were also right to leave.

Yeah in a perfect world stuff wouldnt happen that we didnt want...and maybe he assumed because you went to his house that everything was ok.

Xdriver...mate...dont worry. Chalk it up to experience. Its was your first tentative steps out and there were plenty of reasons for you to have felt uncomfortable in that experience.

But the great thing is that you did it. You were honest with someone, you were seeking reassurance, knowledge. All great signs. So the end wasnt what you wanted or expected...dont ever let yourself be in a situation where you feel uncomfortable or unsafe....but you started down the path of being true to yourself.

Just take your time...guys at your age will be as quick to want to jump your bones as this guy. Just look for someone who will value you and understand you the way you want to be. Thats what you deserve. And thats what will make the next time - when you're ready and comfortable - be so much better.
 
rareboy said:
Oh god, what happened to the good old days when everyone just wanted to fuck and not talk.
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Lol, thats how I felt about being gay when I came out in January. Fortunately, I new & trusted my current BF, so we shared each other completely on our first date. [sex was & still is great btw]
 
I can only imagine how disappointed with him, the first guy whom you felt comfortable enough to share your sexuality issues.

As most have said here, I'd be wary of going to a stranger's place without knowing what to expect. If you've met him say, online and you've chatted and agreed upon talk or sex or whatever, then, it's all fine to go (....cautiously too). Just take care of yourself.

Personally, I've found it easier to talk to people online (like here on JUB) and even calling up the local teen help line.
 
I don't know, but I kind of think that it was a good experience for you, albeit not the one you were after.

You were caught in a situation where you had to assert yourself and you did, where many guys would have lost their nerve and let themselves be coerced into something that they would later regret.
 
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