First gay sex

[gdude30]

Sometime this week I am going to suck my first cock, rim a first ass, have my cock sucked, and get fucked.

As well as some other stuff.

I am grateful that I found a gentle and nice olderman who isn't too big (Want to start off with something small first) and he lives close by.

Oh and someone told me this about Cumming and HIV. Is this true?

lol it is very hard to explain this way But the virus that produces HIV is in your seemen and if you have any kind of cut inside inside your ass that could hive you hivso its inportant to always wear a condom when you get fucked especially you since it may be your first time.

I am gonna be smart and not have him pick me up from home or take me home. We are meeting at the mall and I'm being dropped off there. At first I said I just want him to fuck me good and let me suck his cock and he diddn't sound very interested. I apoligized and told him that maybe instead of all that since I am new to gay oral and anal sex that he could teach me how to suck a cock and how to love a man. And he agreed and I'm happy and he seems like he is looking forward to it

We are gonna try to meet today or maybe tommorow. But I'm excited that my first gay experience will be with a sweet man who wants to take it slow and will make it fun for both of us.

Now I know that bareback is bad..a few guys have asked to do that to me but I told them to go away. But what about licking and eating cum? Isn't that the same. I have tasted my own cum before. Of course he will wear a condom when he fucks me.

But about cumming in my ass. That sounds very hot and i'd like that. But is that not safe or something? If not then I'll pass on that.

Actually there is this very hot bear who wants to have sex with me sometime today or tommorow. He said that he wants to cum in my ass but I told him it would be hotter to do it on my face

I was a little worried about having sex with a man at first because of AIDS and HIV.

But a condom probably helps and I just need to make good judgement on the guys who fuck me. I think most guys will be honest about saying if they have HIV or don't. And they seem to be upfront about wanting to fuck bareback in the first place which is good. I'd hate for that to come out of nowhere.

So yeah. Today or Tommorow something will happen and wednsday I have a date with an older bear who seems really nice.

I'm excited about meeting all of them. The older guy today or tommorow for learning how to suck a cock and take one up the ass and do other things. The big bearded bear for some hot sweaty sex and to have my hole pounded. I know that will hurt a little but it sounds so hot. And the older skinny bear because he seems like a romantic type and wants to make me happy and everything.

Overall meeting these guys sounds great but I know it is risky. Someone told me if I ever feel uncomfortable to say no.

So does anyone have any advice for a first timer. Also can someone explain to me about the aids and cum thing. Is it bad to drink or eat cum and is it bad for someone to cum in your asshole?

Thanks for reading this and answering my questions. Just a young horny virgin who has been waiting for this for years.

 

[godson112]

Well, you should wear a condom regardless unless you're with someone you really really trust and know.
Always always wear a condom with strangers. You never know what they've picked up, and unless they get tested regularly, they don't either.
But are you sure you want your first time to be with a stranger? Just something to think about.
I think if you know what you want, then go for it, just make sure you do use a condom.

 

[gdude30]

How do you tell if someone has HIV or AIDS then?

 

[godson112]

How do you tell if someone has HIV or AIDS then?

You ask them.
If they say they don't have it and you really trust them, then you have sex with them. If you don't trust them then don't have sex with them.
If they have it, you don't have sex with them.

You can't see if they have it. It doesn't brand their bum cheeks saying "Don't come near me, I'll give you AIDS".
You just have to trust the person.

 

[KaraBulut]

gdude30:

You need to give more thought to what you are planning. This is too much too soon and for all the wrong reasons.

Think of it this way- how many of your straight friends would be setting up a hookup at a mall to get fucked by a much older stranger?

If you live in Decatur, you live in one of the cities that has the largest population of gay men and women in Georgia. There are plenty of nice guys closer to your age that you can date. You can do much better that this.

 

[gdude30]

So if they don't have it then barebacking, cumming in ass, and all that is fine.

But you have to make absolutely sure like going to doctor with em rigth?

And if not then just condom for sucking and fucking.

Sucking on a cock with a condom on sounds wierd. But someone said it's safe.

Doesn't matter what they do.


Are you serious?

That's awesome.

I'm just not into guys my own age. It's the way it is I can't help it.

Well it's more of the body type then age. I like cubs, chubs, daddies, bears, and mature men.

But I don't like twinks that much. But that's just me. I just like older men is all.

 

[youngnihilist]

Unfortunately it's a lot more dangerous meeting an older man than someone your own age for sex. So you do have to go with that risk. You're small, you're young, you're new and you're incredibly vulnerable. Not saying you shouldn't go but don't be afraid to run or say no.
Also they're probably looking for a quick fuck to devirginize the kid and end of story. So you may get attached and you may get hurt. In which case you'll have a good lesson learned.

 

[gdude30]

I need some experience with this anyways.

Even if I have to run I'll run.

Or if I have to say no to a hot guy. I've already done that before because they wanted bareback.

Some older men are looking for a relationship though. Not all but some.

 

[lookin4sum1icantrust]

Men are men older or young they all want the same. It hard to trust anyone, I could never do the hookup thing cause like everyone says you will never know what you will catch even with a condoms cause they still break. I have to date before I ever get into a sexual relationship with person. I'm still a virgin because all the guys that talk to me want SEX! it will never happen cause most guys are PIGS!

 

[yuengling]

Not to be harsh but you got to be kidding?
There's way more stds than just aids or hiv sir. What about anal warts, herpes, syphillyis or any other ungodly thing you can get from having sex. If your going to have sex you must wear a condom. The last thing you need is to lose your virginity then wake up a week later with your pee burning like razorblades.
This especially true when your sleeping with an older person who's likely slept with at least a dozen people already. You can dare to be dangerous when your both 17 or 18 when neither of the people involved haven't been having much sex but not as you age. Depending on the size of your town there's a town with gay old men bars, (the one here is behind a steel mill of all places ha). I wouldn't meet with a strange man that was much older than you. Wasn't there a jub meetup in atlanta?

 

[yuengling]

Not to be a prude but am I the only one that thinks we need to cut out this rimming shit. Its just too risky I think.

 

[TorontoBoi]

How do you tell if someone has HIV or AIDS then?

oh dear....

You really need to practice safe sex if you are going to be with these men. this is not some joke. if these people are already telling you they want to bareback, i strongly suggest you back away.
get into a serious relationship with someone and do all those things.

 

[Chris3800]

I wouldnt normally reply, but I think you need to SLOW DOWN for your safety!!

Your 18! Theirs no Rush!

Sites like this make you think everyone is slutty and having sex with anyone is safe, it's NOT! I've only had 2 sex partners in my life! only my BF of 3 years did I receiently have sex with with no condom, still not a safe practice, but I know his Status and he is clean, took an HIV test, and we dont cheat on each other!


Save yourself for someone worth it, an old guy you meet on the net isnt a good idea.....

~Chris

 

[jockboy01]

Sites like this make you think everyone is slutty

I take offense. Many sites make you think this, but I find this one to have rather reasonable, normal people here.... in general of course.

Save yourself for someone worth it, an old guy you meet on the net isnt a good idea.

There's way more stds than just aids or hiv sir. What about anal warts, herpes, syphillyis or any other ungodly thing you can get from having sex.

Totally agree with these two. But it's up to you ultimately... just be safe.

 

[volumee]

I'm sure you already did it.. but i'm going to reply anyways hopefully you can tell us you're experience here

First off, you're going.. WAY TOO FAST for a virgin.. no kidding.. you want this and that. You seem very un-experienced, obviously you're a virgin. But I mean, I think you should be aware before you even have sexual encounters. You ask dumb questions like 'How do you know if he has HIV' posted up there. You can't tell if somebody has HIV, you have to ask. Yes you can get disease from rimming, not being rimmed, and giving head. Although it's a small percentage but very possible. The first experience is usually not good for most people, straight or gay. My first experience was absoulutely horrible. I'm a bi-sexual, and when I first got gay sex as a bottom, I wanted to leave and become straight. It hurt alot - yes it will improve, but first times are usually not good. You should keep it slow... oral, anal, and kissing. Then go from there

 

[virginboy]

yeah, i just had sex for the first time with someone i met online. i wouldn't advise it, even though it seemed ok to me. i basically sucked him off, rimmed him (which i didn't really care for), and let him fuck me. it hurt like a bitch when he first went in, but after it was pretty good. however, that's beside the point. i was too naive and nervous to ask him to suck me off which is what i really wanted. but anyway, i think i'd rather do it again with someone i've gotten to know. he was nice, but i kinda felt it was more about him than me.

 

[Alive and Free]

how did it turn out ?