First Hardcore Encounter

[Funguy7]

I've been hooking up with a guy for a blow and go situation off and on for a bit. I've agreed to be very dom the next time we meet. Some fet stuff, topping. I'm mostly str8 but kinda nervous. Any tips on how to be the right kind of dom in this situation?

 

[MaxBlack]

How did it go?

 

[gcs2718]

If he's like me he'll enjoy you being verbal, telling him what to do and that he's a good little cocksucker as you're sliding your cock into his throat, until your balls are pressed against his chin. He might gag a little but he'll love it and the amount of saliva he makes when you do this makes the blowjob even better for you. Then rub your wet, sloppy cock and balls all over his face before having him rim you. If you've never had a tongue in your ass, you're in for a treat. And when you're ready, make him swallow every drop of your cum, don't allow him to waste anything even if you have to shove it down his throat again to make sure he drinks it all. And of course he'll likely willingly lick you clean. Most cocksuckers (like me) will keep licking and sucking until you take it away from us. I always thank a guy and tell him how delicious his cock was and if he fed me a big load I compliment him on the volume and how delicious it was.

 

[BiBtm64]

I've been hooking up with a guy for a blow and go situation off and on for a bit. I've agreed to be very dom the next time we meet. Some fet stuff, topping. I'm mostly str8 but kinda nervous. Any tips on how to be the right kind of dom in this situation?

First of all, ask him what his limits are. At the end of the day, the encounter should be consensual and agreeable to both of you. Limits can be broken down to the following, if you can explore these with him:

Hard limits: These are things he will absolutely not do under any circumstances. This might include scat, blood, extreme pain, or marks on the skin that might be hard to explain to others such as a partner. If you're both new to dom-sub play, you might start with knowing his hard limits then figure out the rest as you go.

Soft limits: These are things he feels uncomfortable with, but would not totally rule out. If he's not willing or able to say what his soft limits are, a good approach is to have a safe-word or safe-action that allows him to clearly specify his limit. For example, saying "no" may be part of the dom-sub play to encourage you to continue, but saying a safe-word will mean "no, stop". Do you need a non-verbal safe-action (signal) to indicate "no" if his mouth is full of your cock, or if he's gagged? It's worthwhile agreeing to this beforehand.

Then you might consider what type of dom you could be. Here are some types that I've experienced or heard of:

• The Daddy: firm and authoritative, yet loving and gentle
• The Sadist: enjoying the sub's pain
• The Humiliator: enjoying making the sub his bitch
• The Master: using a punishment and reward system to train the sub to serve
• The Rigger: making the sub feel helpless (usually through bondage)
• The Predator: making the sub feel like they're being hunted.

You could start by ordering him to be naked when you arrive. Have him wear a mask and/or blindfold, or you apply one. When he's naked while you're clothed, and especially when he can't see you, you're in a dominant role already. Be verbal, tell him you'll make him your bitch. Make him suck your cock and hold his head, or make him eat your ass. If you're into eating ass, you can use it as punishment / reward. Tie him up to fuck him, while gagged. As a sub myself, there's nothing hotter than being fucked by someone I can't see and has total control over me.

Your fun as a Dom is limited only by your imagination and his limits. Always remember to respect his limits.