Quality Street
On the Prowl
Right, I've previously posted here quite a bit about my experiences with other guys, but pretty much every single time was based purely on a physical attraction with little to no thought regarding anything more.
However, all this seems to have changed over the last few days. I met this guy quite a while ago, only for about 30mins or so and we got on finem but that was that. Then, a few weeks later I get invited out by someone who is best friends with this guy (let's call him Bob.) She tells me that Bob is going to this event in the evening and that I should go too.
On that night out, me and Bob hit it off pretty damn well. Even though we've only spoke a couple of nights, we have so much in common it's unreal, we were joking, laughing, arms round eachother for photos etc. Also, through the night, Bob's best mate (a female) was slipping in comments like 'bromance' that we should 'swap numbers' and was commenting on how well we were getting along. This all may just be me being paranoid but all of these little things seemed to indicate that she knows something I don't, perhaps Bob has mentioned he may be interested in me, who knows?
Anyway, I don't know for sure what team Bob bats for. His facebook doesn't say which sex he's interested in, I know that he's single, he doesn't give off a massive gay vibe but I wouldn't be surprised if he was bi.
Basically, I really don't know how best to act. What's killing methe most is that not once have I considered being in a relationship with another guy. This is my first proper crush on someone, I think he's attractive both physically and in personality. It's just so difficult because I consider myself bi, but only my best mate knows. I'm just worried it'll end up with us both wanting something to happen, but neither of us making a move incase the other isn't interested and inturn one of us gets exposed for who we are. On the other hand, he may be completely straight and I'll be devastated
However, all this seems to have changed over the last few days. I met this guy quite a while ago, only for about 30mins or so and we got on finem but that was that. Then, a few weeks later I get invited out by someone who is best friends with this guy (let's call him Bob.) She tells me that Bob is going to this event in the evening and that I should go too.
On that night out, me and Bob hit it off pretty damn well. Even though we've only spoke a couple of nights, we have so much in common it's unreal, we were joking, laughing, arms round eachother for photos etc. Also, through the night, Bob's best mate (a female) was slipping in comments like 'bromance' that we should 'swap numbers' and was commenting on how well we were getting along. This all may just be me being paranoid but all of these little things seemed to indicate that she knows something I don't, perhaps Bob has mentioned he may be interested in me, who knows?
Anyway, I don't know for sure what team Bob bats for. His facebook doesn't say which sex he's interested in, I know that he's single, he doesn't give off a massive gay vibe but I wouldn't be surprised if he was bi.
Basically, I really don't know how best to act. What's killing methe most is that not once have I considered being in a relationship with another guy. This is my first proper crush on someone, I think he's attractive both physically and in personality. It's just so difficult because I consider myself bi, but only my best mate knows. I'm just worried it'll end up with us both wanting something to happen, but neither of us making a move incase the other isn't interested and inturn one of us gets exposed for who we are. On the other hand, he may be completely straight and I'll be devastated
