First time advice

[Sand246]

Just wanted to ask for some suggestions. Would you recommend looking for someone with more experience, or someone with very little to be on the same level

 

[BiBtm64]

I recommend finding someone that you feel a good connection with, and you feel that you can trust. Experience is good, but compatibility is better.

 

[wolfypdx]

Agree with BiBtm64. You'll be a lot less nervous if you're with someone you can trust and that will treat you with respect (unless you're not looking for respect.

 

[ricksvca]

Just wanted to ask for some suggestions. Would you recommend looking for someone with more experience, or someone with very little to be on the same level

I recommend that you look for someone with more experience for your first time. It is also very important that you are compatible and comfortable with this person. I would also recommend that you tell this other person that it is your first time before you actually engage in any sexual activity.

 

[mnpervert]

Yes definitely someone you are comfortable with. If they have lots of experience they can teach you many things. Or if they are new the both of you can discover things together

 

[magicdick]

All good advice, but once you're comfortable one-on-one with a man, go for all the cock you can get, period. And don't limit yourself to one-on-one. Open up your horizons to fucking and getting fucked (the latter is the ultimate experience), cum facials, getting fucked while several guys use your moth and face to deposit their cum. The only limit is your imagination. But, in the end, do what gives you pleasure in your comfort zone.

 

[cuck72]

I always think of finding another older guy like me, start up a chat and see where it goes. Guessing we are both virgins at it and hopefully he wants to try it like me. What's hard for me is just getting those words out there to some stranger and saying I want to suck cock.

 

[wolfypdx]

Start simply: "Are you curious about your attraction to other males? Me too. Let's meet for coffee and chat a bit, and see where it goes."

 

[BiBtm64]

Start simply: "Are you curious about your attraction to other males? Me too. Let's meet for coffee and chat a bit, and see where it goes."

Great advice. So many people imagine that hooking up means meeting someone from the internet, sight unseen and straight away having sex. I've done that, but I totally understand it's not for everyone and especially not for many first-timers. I've met guys for coffee who were nervous or unsure, not wanting to rush into things. One became a long-term fuck buddy after taking a bit of time. Others moved on, and that was fine. They appreciated the chat and the opportunity to find out more.

Like I said to the OP, I hope he finds someone he connects with. It's more important than experience. He hasn't been here since July 7 so here's hoping he got the advice he was after.

 

[magicdick]

Great advice. So many people imagine that hooking up means meeting someone from the internet, sight unseen and straight away having sex. I've done that, but I totally understand it's not for everyone and especially not for many first-timers. I've met guys for coffee who were nervous or unsure, not wanting to rush into things. One became a long-term fuck buddy after taking a bit of time. Others moved on, and that was fine. They appreciated the chat and the opportunity to find out more.

Like I said to the OP, I hope he finds someone he connects with. It's more important than experience. He hasn't been here since July 7 so here's hoping he got the advice he was after.

Good words, bro.