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First time anal sex with bf

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White angel

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Last night, my bf and I had anal sex. He told me that he had never btm before.

I am puzzled that he can maintain an errection and also ejecuated while I am inside him.

I have had sex with few 'virgins' before. Most of them cannot have an errection during the first time.

Also, immediately after sex, they will rush to the toilet.

However, last night, my bf did none of that :-)

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He must have had a lot of sexual frustration build up and converted it all into pleasure....or he is lying.

Did you use protection?
 
Why do people find it difficult to just be honest with each other?

Just ask him, pure and simple, and if you feel he is lying - well what's the point of being with him if you do not trust him? Sooner or later he'll be honest. Maybe he bottomed a few times and isn't too keen on it so he lied to you about it because he doesn't want to do it?
 
So? I was my ex's and my previous ex's first. And I am a 100% sure that this is true. Both of them stayed hard, came pretty quick and did not rush to the bathroom afterwards. The first a bit later though. If you are good, and if the other person is relaxed and trusting you there is no need for anything, that you expect for a first time, to happen.
 
First time I bottomed I lost my erection initially and then it came back after about 5-10 minutes. I was ready to cum during sex and didn't need to go to the bathroom after sex.

Usually people lose an erection when bottoming because they're uncomfortable (maybe the pain, fear of pain, or not turned on by the idea of being fucked, or just intimidated by the experience)... If he didn't feel any of these things then it's perfectly he just sat back to enjoy the ride.. literally ;)
 
Incognito said:
First time I bottomed I lost my erection initially and then it came back after about 5-10 minutes. I was ready to cum during sex and didn't need to go to the bathroom after sex.

Usually people lose an erection when bottoming because they're uncomfortable (maybe the pain, fear of pain, or not turned on by the idea of being fucked, or just intimidated by the experience)... If he didn't feel any of these things then it's perfectly he just sat back to enjoy the ride.. literally ;)
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I usually lose my erection during anal sex because of the prostate being rubbed
so well!! I never have any pain. Just pure pleasure & I dont usually have the need to go to the bathroom after having sex. I like to keep what my partner gave me in in love for as long as i can..*|*
 
White angel said:
Last night, my bf and I had anal sex. He told me that he had never btm before.
....However, last night, my bf did none of that :-)
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Does it matter?

If the two of you had a good time and you enjoyed fucking then it doesn't matter whether he was a virgin or whether he has been fucked by the half the guys in town.

If it bugs you, talk to him about it. Otherwise, enjoy it for what is was.
 
GiancarloC said:
I'm not gonna say someone is being dishonest here. Maybe you made it good for him the first time. When I bottomed the first time I didn't have to run to the bathroom and I did stay hard. It does depend on the person. Maybe you turn him on that much?
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Hi guys.

Txs for all your comments and feedback as well as advises.

I am just puzzled because he is the first one that I had anal sex with for the first time that does not run to the toilet after our intimate moments.

Txs also to those that shared their experiences of first time anal sex. I am still learning!

Cheers!
 
I agree with the comment WHY DOES IT MATTER... take it for what it was and move on with your relationship... if you are going to question every thing your partner does that is different than what "other guys did" you might as well end it right now because you are going to destroy him. BE THANKFUL!!!!!!!!
 
White angel said:
I am just puzzled because he is the first one that I had anal sex with for the first time that does not run to the toilet after our intimate moments.
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That's a particular behavior that has different reasons.

There are some guys who can be totally into the sex but then in the aftermath, want to shower, or wipe their ass or otherwise clean up- it's more of a "I feel dirty" thing. Other guys will hang around and cuddle and will worry about the mess later.

If you're using a condom, there's not an overwhelming reason to run to the toilet after anal sex although some guys want to get the lube off their ass and freshen up before planting their crack on the clean sheets. If the sheets are your boyfriend's sheets, that's probably good manners.

It doesn't have much of anything to do with level of experience. It has to do more with how well you know your partner and how comfortable you are with the messy part of sex.

But that's only part of the issue- the big issue seems to be your worry that you partner is not being truthful and has more experience than he lets on. That's more of a communication issue.
 
I kept my erection and did not need to use the restroom the first time, and the guy had no idea what he was doing =P
 
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