First time could be tonight

[stillscion20]

Hi all I thought I'd turner to jub for some advice and tips.

I'm a 21-yo gay guy and I've only fooled around with a guy once before. I don't come across as gay to most people and I'm really shy and not very sexual so I have a lot of trouble meeting people (and bars/clubs aren't my scene). Anyway, I didn't technically lose my virginity to this guy (which is good because it was kind of just a random drunken thing lol).

I recently got a grindr and it's really helped me get myself out there. I've been talking to this one guy for a few days now. He's really hot, a little younger than me, and we're in similar situations (except he's completely closeted still). We're both nervous for tonight but we both really want to meet.

I'm excited this is finally happening but I guess it's taken until now because I've always felt kind of immature.

Anyway, he wants to do a lot of stuff lol and I have no idea what to expect or how to prepare for sex (grooming etc). Any good advice or tips?

 

[stillscion20]

also we're both completely clean. but that's obvious since neither of us have had more than one guy before.

 

[Bladerunner1811]

Hi all I thought I'd turner to jub for some advice and tips.

I'm a 21-yo gay guy and I've only fooled around with a guy once before. I don't come across as gay to most people and I'm really shy and not very sexual so I have a lot of trouble meeting people (and bars/clubs aren't my scene). Anyway, I didn't technically lose my virginity to this guy (which is good because it was kind of just a random drunken thing lol).

I recently got a grindr and it's really helped me get myself out there. I've been talking to this one guy for a few days now. He's really hot, a little younger than me, and we're in similar situations (except he's completely closeted still). We're both nervous for tonight but we both really want to meet.

I'm excited this is finally happening but I guess it's taken until now because I've always felt kind of immature.

Anyway, he wants to do a lot of stuff lol and I have no idea what to expect or how to prepare for sex etc. Any good advice or tips?

first BIG TIP: make sure to have lube handy otherwise you'll be sore the next day!

 

[Seasoned]

Condoms at this point even though he strikes you as honest and you want to believe him. Shower and perhaps shower again with him, soaping up each other if you both want to be soapy clean.

 

[Rolyo85]

Just because you're meeting doesn't mean you HAVE to have sex. ONLY do it if you want to AT THE MOMENT. You don't owe anyone anything. And yeah, lots and lots of lube

 

[stillscion20]

no i want to do this

 

[Rolyo85]

That's why I said "at the time". What you have now, are fantasies as to how it could go. Once you're faced with the actual person in the actual situation, it will be different and that's perfectly normal. You could still want it or something in either the circumstances or the other boy might change your mind. I 'm just saying, that's totally ok.

 

[Bladerunner1811]

have fun dude

 

[HunterM]

Good advice so far...especially shower before sex. In the shower, check for open wounds or sores on this body. Needless to say, don't be obvious about it. Make sure your breath does not stink. Bad breath is a real turn off for me...and lots of other people as well. Eat mints or, better yet, bring a bottle of mouth wash with you for rinsing your mouth before sex. Everyone appreciates good hygiene.

Relax and have fun!

 

[Rolyo85]

Jeez. With all this hygienic advice, I'm beginning to wonder how I've ever managed to have sex without a chemical shower before that. Stop freaking the guy out!

 

[youfiad]

Tell us how it goes!!

 

[stillscion20]

it was good. i was a lot more comfortable than I thought I would be.

 

[tbtmo02]

details details please