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First time on Wednesday

Maccabee

Maccabee

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Last week I met a really nice and sweet boy for the first time in real life. I know him from the internet a little bit longer though. We met three times last week and it was fantastic. I really like him. On Wednesday he is going to spend the night at my place and of course I'm really excited. But on the other hand, I'm a bit nervous too.

I've doubted about my sexuality a long time and I still do. I think I can be attracted to women, but I'm just more interested in boys. I'm not really doubting about the fact that I like boys. I mean, all of my straight friends said they are not at all interested in kissing guys.

In my opinion I haven't proven my sexuality yet for myself. I've kissed three guys in the past months. And I got aroused, so to speak. But what if I won't get aroused on Wednesday... Probably I'm just making things too complicated. But still, it's in my head.

I'm wondering if this sounds familiar to some of you guys and how did you deal with this?
 
You could be interested in both, bisexual. If you are interested in him, then let things go where they go and see what happens. I wouldn't go farther than what you are comfortable with, because then it would just be awkward. Keep us updated! ..|
 
Resolve that Wednesday will be Wednesday, and nothing else. Don't look for it to "prove" your sexuality one way or the other. If you get horny and have great sex, kick ass. If you don't, make sure that HE does, and try again some other time.

And standard gargoyle routine. Condoms. Lube. Lots of both. Practice with them by yourself until you know what you're doing.

And have fun, damnit.

Lex
 
I do am interested in him, that's for sure. And i won't go farther than what I'm comfortable with. I really want to spend the night with him, but in someway I probably am a bit afraid to disappoint him. Perhaps it's just my anxiety!
 
Sex isn't supposed to be nerve-wracking. It's supposed to be fun. So go have fun.

Does he know it's your first time? Is it his? You both should know going in. If you're doing something, and it's not doing it for you, say something. Preferably something positive - "Could we try such-and-such?" rather than "I don't like that".

Lex
 
Haha, yeah sex should be fun. And I believe I'm going to like it, but I'm just a little bit "scared" for the unknown.

He knows it's my first time, not for him. But he is really sweet, so I know he understands...
 
Oh, more generic advice. You'll probably be ultra horny when you first get the clothes off and get started. That's both cool and understandable. Ask him to get you off quick - a quick jerkoff or BJ should do the trick. Then rest up for a bit, and start over again. :)

Lex
 
Thanks for all the advice guys. I'm probably just too worried. What Lex said about the ultra horny part, I'm really looking forward to that. But a part of me is saying, what if you won't
get horny and you aren't gay after all...

I really should mute that voice, because I like the boy and I already got horny. So what's the problem.

But I'll keep you guys posted! ;)
 
Ok, time for an update!

We had the best night ever. I must say that I still was a little bit stressed. First we watched a movie and cuddled a lot. The the pants went down. In the beginning I still needed a little bit of help to get "horny", but that got better later on.

Some of my doubts about my sexual preference are gone now, but there not all gone. On the other hand, although I was not über horny, I really enjoyed it. It felt great to sleep in the same bed with him for a night.

I really like him and he asked me to be his boyfriend! And of course I said yes!
 
Maccabee said:
Ok, time for an update!

We had the best night ever. I must say that I still was a little bit stressed. First we watched a movie and cuddled a lot. The the pants went down. In the beginning I still needed a little bit of help to get "horny", but that got better later on.

Some of my doubts about my sexual preference are gone now, but there not all gone. On the other hand, although I was not über horny, I really enjoyed it. It felt great to sleep in the same bed with him for a night.

I really like him and he asked me to be his boyfriend! And of course I said yes!
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SWEET!!!!!!! What a nice story. Hope you two will be happy together.
 
Baie dankie, Freddie :) and thanks Lex and Rossignol

I really like him. He is so sweet and he is sms'ing (texting) me all sweets things every day.

Still I wonder if you guys recognise first time anxiety and the doubts about being gay. I really don't want to hurt him, so I don't like the fact that there still is some kind of a mental blocade...
 
Maccabee said:
Baie dankie, Freddie :) and thanks Lex and Rossignol

I really like him. He is so sweet and he is sms'ing (texting) me all sweets things every day.

Still I wonder if you guys recognise first time anxiety and the doubts about being gay. I really don't want to hurt him, so I don't like the fact that there still is some kind of a mental blocade...
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I would just add; be truthful. Tell him how you really feel so he won't have false expectations.
 
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