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Hey All
Ok so, I've been seeing this guy for about a month and a half now and we've just recently been starting to really fool around, oral sex and what not.
He is amazing, hes gorgeous, he has a killer tight little body and hes one of the sweetest and nicest guys i think I have ever met. Needless to say there is no lack of attraction. I get turned on just thinking about him.
This has been my first time with a guy and it's been amazing but I haven't been able to climax while with him, I even find it harder to climax by myself since i've met him. I think it may be just because I have never been with someone else while I am trying to get off, so there has never been that added pressure of "when am I gonna cum?". I've always done it alone and maybe thats what i am comfortable with.
He has no trouble getting off, the other night i didn't even have to touch him and he was done. (which was kinda embarrassing for him, but i'd almost rather cum early than not at all!)
When he jacks me off my dick almost goes numb and it doesn't do anything, like i've never really felt like I was even half way there or on the way to climaxing. I get turned on and hard and then like 3 min later i loose my hard on and find it difficult to get it back again. I don't get it! This guy is the definition of hot...whats wrong with me?
I am hoping that once we spend more time in bed i will become more comfortable and relax but I want it to happen sooner than later!

Does anyone have any tips on how I can move this along?

Before I met him, it would take me like 2 min flat to hit climax while watching porn or something, now it takes ages!
I am not on medication and I have never been drunk while with him in bed.
 
Sounds like you are emotionally attached to him as well... could it be love??
 
Find a good Gay doctor, tell him your problem, maybe do a test for your testosterone count. In the meantime, talk about this openly with your hottie, just so he knows what you are exxperinecing, his knowing may help to take the preasure off of you, Good Luck.
 
Sounds all psychological... and might I add, quite normal to me. Many many many guys have this problem. As you said, as you get more comfortable with him, it won't be a problem. It seems guys (almost all) have one of the two problems with somebody new... they either can't get off, or they explode right out of the gates. Neither one is desirable. Yet as long as you both know that sex isn't something to be scripted and are patient with getting to know each other, it should be fine.
 
I agree with Jockboy, its all in your head so dont go rushing for the doctors office.

I never believe anyone who tells me there first time was "mind blowing" or "fantastic"......I am sorry but they are liars hehe

you clearly have some deep feelings for this guy and your nerves are doing a number on your head! know what I think would be best?..........tell him, you'd be surprised how much more comfortable you will be once its out in the open and he can understand, then the two of you can have fun figuring stuff out and getting comfortable together.

sex isnt the be all and end all of a relationship, let is come naturally (hehe so to speak) dont stress yourself out over it, and the key point.......communication! tell him what you have told us and maybe he can help you feel more relaxed, maybe he knows exactly how you feel :D
 
Thanks for all the tips guys! It worked!
Last night was amazing with him, we hung out took a shower together and I was totaly relaxed and just tried to enjoy the moment. It payed off and I got off.

We had sorta talked about it previously and he had said he liked a challenge. Once we were done he told me how happy he was that I had gotten off. It was truly a great experience and I am surprised I got over this thing so fast! I cannot wait to see him again, I wish I could spend every second with him. I guess the time I am not seeing him makes the time we are together that much better.

Gahhh, any tips on how to get someone out of your head so you can study for midterms? haha jk.

Thanks again to all who posted, you were a great help to me.
 
Glad things worked out. See, you're fine. And it happens to a lot of guys.

any tips on how to get someone out of your head so you can study for midterms?
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Unfortunately, no help here. But that's kind of a nice thing eh? LOL. Good luck on the midterms!!
 
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