first time sex

[mustangman]

last night, I hooked up with someone and we attempted to have sex. I say attempted because he could not get his dick in my ass. Reasons? His dick was not hard enough, my ass is too small, I am still a virgin and my "hole" still needs to be enlarged, none of the above.

Any help will be appreciated.

 

[colemanshs]

If it is your first time having anal, I would suggest getting a small Dildo and practicing with that first. Get your hole used to having something in there and it'll be easier when you get a real one in there.

Also have your top to finger your hole before inserting his cock and use A LOT of lube!

Good luck!

 

[jockboy01]

Could be any of the above. I agree with colemanshs from your end (no pun intended)

 

[hermanding]

there could have been psicological pressures too - nerves, anxiety.
ding

 

[62624rd]

Did you use any lube? If not I sugest that you use some. My first time without it hurt and he could not enter me.

 

[mustangman]

there could have been psicological pressures too - nerves, anxiety.
ding

So can you "close up"? I did not know that was posable?

 

[Twisly]

You partner might be experiencing the same problem I am having.

 

[mustangman]

You partner might be experiencing the same problem I am having.

I saw this post and wondered the same thing. maybe it was not me after all!!!

 

[JackFTwist]

maybe it was not me after all!!!

it was not you - at all

 

[mustangman]

it was not you - at all

Thanks, that makes me feel much better!

 

[Greatomaster]

try a Dildo first to make your hole big and try using some lube.

 

[Twisly]

It all boils down to a lot of lube, and a lot of patience...

I think too...