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Hey it was my 1st time w/ a guy and it was alright until I had an orgasm on his stomach then I used it to jerk him off and he got really wierd about it. It was both our first time and I don't really know where 2 go from here.
 
well, where do you want to go from here?

Hookup? Fuckbuddy? Boyfreind?
 
you used your sperm to jerk him off? yes of course he got weird about it .. that might not be "high risk" but that's not "safe sex" either.
 
It was both our first time and I don't really know where 2 go from here.
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I would suggest you watch some porn together and figure out what you want to try.
 
IMHO, it is always better to be doing things with someone you have already bonded with in deep friendship, maybe even love. Somehow, it helps to get it through your thick skull that this is not rocket science. Folks have been learning by doing for thousands of years and, believe me, it still works.

I like to call it getting up close and personal. It does not take a great deal of talking, but it seems to go better if you have provided yourself with a zone of privacy so that you are not disturbed.

And, part of the joy of those first times is that the ease and the beauty of sex with another human being comes as a great surprise and provides a great deal of relief for the worrying one tends to do when thinking about such things alone.

Ask yourself what you did with the first puddle of cum you ever produced. Ask yourself what you would do with the first puddle a partner provided for you to deal with. It can be an occasion for humor unless you are dealing with naturally "uptight" partners.

Promise yourself that you will not be unduly surprised by the reactions of a partner. But school yourself to be prepared. Good friends can help each other in becoming "in the know" in matters sexual. Don't be shy and don't assume you have to know too much to be an active partner.
 
02149697 said:
. It was both our first time and I don't really know where 2 go from here.
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What this a planned event or did it just happen?

And where do you want it to go?
 
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