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fooling around on the first date, now what?

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So I was introduced to a close friend of one of my friends basically as a setup to get us together and after our brief introduction we exchanged phone numbers.

Fast forward to a week later and he is driving an hour north to come visit me. We go out for some beers, have a little dinner, return to my home to have some more drinks and watch movies. A few hours later and he's in my bed.

I really like this guy he's a sweet heart, it was romantic. We fooled around and were spooning all night and had more fun in the am.

I don't want to come on to strong and bother him but at the same time am dying wondering how he feels. We did make plans for the upcoming weekend and had a lot of good kisses before he left.

Advice?
 
I would just enjoy it. If you only went on one date, talking about how he feels is a bit much too early.

Play it cool, have a good time and see where it goes.
 
You can tell him that you had a great time and that you would love to do it again, he will definitely respond to that. Have fun, but don´t forget that first impressions can be wrong, keep your eyes open.
 
if you come on to strong...it could be viewed as clingy/needy...desperate..

just let flow..tell him you had a great time with him. And hope that you can both spend more together..

don't get all ..calling/texting every 5 min, for a response.
 
I agree with the other posters, but DEFINITELY make contact. You must at least show you have more than a mild interest. Too often people try to play coy and end up missing out on a good thing.
 
Figured I'd post back with an update. We've spent every weekend together since first meeting and I'm happy to say we are now official and oh so happy.
 
lucasss said:
Figured I'd post back with an update. We've spent every weekend together since first meeting and I'm happy to say we are now official and oh so happy.
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So how did it happen? Did you tell him how you felt and ask if he felt the same way? Provide us an answer to the question you posed in your original post please!!
 
I'm glad you had a different experience but as a general observation "sex on the first date" is a euphemism for hooking-up, and as a rule hook-ups tend to be self-limiting experiences, been there, done that. So when you're in the market for a relationship, I'd advise holding off on the nookie until you've had a chance to really get to know each other.
 
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