for those married to or dating women - how do you shave/wax your pubes?

[TylerDurden222]

I am mid 30s and have shaved/trimmed since high school. wife (who doesn't know I am Bi) is a bit vanilla, and doesn't seem to have the same interest in sexy pubes or sex in general...so i'm always curious, what do you guys married to women do with your pubes? I want to do a full wax, or maybe a racing stripe but afraid she will freak out (that's so gay!). I'm currently back and forth between a wedge trimmed short, or I shave the whole thing...

 

[nudenative]

-It may be personal choice Tyler. I have never trimmed or shaved for my wife, or girlfriends/guys in friends with benefits. My exwife was a latina model in college and she never shaved or waxed completely bald. She always had a thick landing stripe or a natural bush. The guys who have fucked me all had natural bushes as well, along with my current girlfriend and my recent ex-girlfriend. I have asked similarly in the guys and girls too, but they didn't have a preference, just as long as I was naked for them!
Do what turns you on Buddy. ;-)

 

[IrishBuflo]

I just use a short setting on clippers and trim down my pubes. Haven't used a razor. I prefer hair on women - trimmed, but there.

 

[brassbusterpc]

I go between a complete shave and a thin landing strip about 1/2" wide. Every now and then I grow a full bush and color it palutim blonde, looks like I'm shaved as you can't see the hair. Wife and girl freind love it all 3 ways.

 

[NortonRider]

My wife actually got me to short trimming short or shaving my pubes, and shaving my cock and balls. She hated always getting a mouthful of hair. Things have been way better since. But then again, she also knows I like cock too.

 

[Shelby29]

My wife actually got me to short trimming short or shaving my pubes, and shaving my cock and balls. She hated always getting a mouthful of hair. Things have been way better since. But then again, she also knows I like cock too.

I decided a long time ago that I'd had enough hair I n my outh, too, so I prefer to stay smooth and prefer other guys who are smooth or at elast well-trimmed.

 

[TylerDurden222]

Thanks, guys. any others? been going with a small wedge the last few weeks, totally hot as I know guys at the locker room are looking at it...

 

[cuteandsmooth3]

I've shaved my pubes, cock and balls for years now. The girls are a little surprised at first, but then they love there is no hair to get in the way. I shave down to a wedge, but have started shaving that off since a bought a very low cut swimsuit that covers just up to the base of my cock. Have never had any compliments on my shave job from any gay guys though. Always thought that might interest them or be a signal I was open minded...

 

[Jim2011uk]

I've shaved fully for many years now. She thought it was a bit kinky or even a bit "gay" at first, but she quickly got to like it smooth and it certainly increased her liking of giving me oral.

 

[flscribe]

Just my personal taste, but I'm not a fan of the completely shaved look on either men or women. I prefer clean and tidy pubes, but not totally bare. My wife is bare (or closely trimmed) around her labia at all times, but she keeps things trimmed and edged in the bikini area.

Likewise, I am trimmed, too. Occasionally, I'll shave my balls and underneath, but generally I just keep it furry but neat. Since I have a lightly hairy chest, it matches my overall appearance. I guess it would be different if I waxed my chest, but my wife likes running her fingers through my chest hair, so I don't.

I grew up in the '70s and '80s — before razors were invented — so seeing men and women with hair down there is what I'm used to. Just tend to your gardens, ladies and gentlemen. No one likes an overgrown lawn.

 

[Singularity]

I'm surprised there's still a stigma around shaving pubes for guys dating or married to girls. I thought it'd be all the rage since every guy around the block keeps in shape and grooms to high heaven.

 

[frottagelvr]

I'm closely trimmed, shaved balls, have done this for many years. Looks better and because I'm small soft...makes it look slightly bigger lol...well, does to me anyway.

 

[Scoobzoo]

I love being completely waxed and smooth. I insisted from day one that a hairy pussy is a turn off and that I want it bald. So it all works out.

 

[collegebodybuilder]

I love being completely waxed and smooth. I insisted from day one that a hairy pussy is a turn off and that I want it bald. So it all works out.

Hell ya, I love being smooth and my partners too. So much more fun that way!!!

 

[dd788snipe]

I shave my balls and cock. I just like the way it feels and looks. The wife doesn't notice but my FWB likes it when he sucks my cock.

 

[ballcaphair]

I trim. I'm a cyclist and shaving our legs is a given. Women are beautiful because, women! Men's legs, however, look awesome and beautiful. It's cool to hang with guys that are strong, beautifully muscled and shamelessly shaved.

 

[mnpervert]

I have been getting waxed for 20 years. I get the shaft, balls, tween, anus and full butt checks done. I dont shave or wax any other places. One time though I did ask her to wax my back and leave a little triangle above my ass crack so it looked like a pussy.
I have done landing strip, heart etc over my cock

 

[Petallways]

I am mid 30s and have shaved/trimmed since high school. wife (who doesn't know I am Bi) is a bit vanilla, and doesn't seem to have the same interest in sexy pubes or sex in general...so i'm always curious, what do you guys married to women do with your pubes? I want to do a full wax, or maybe a racing stripe but afraid she will freak out (that's so gay!). I'm currently back and forth between a wedge trimmed short, or I shave the whole thing...

I think you should do what feels natural to you. My ex-wife used to wax me and now I have to do it on my own.