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shawmut101

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I've been seeing someone for over a year and we have had a pretty good relationship. We do have some socio-economic issues to resolve, but we do have a great time together. I was looking for an e-mail on my computer and used Google. A personal ad by him came up on an on-line dating service. Should I confront him or just stay quiet? I'm sure he hasn't been seeing anyone else, as when we're not together, he either texts me or is on AIM.
 
How old is the ad? Are you sure that it's an ad that he actual posted. If it's an old ad from some time ago, I would let it drop. If it's a current ad, then it would be cause for concern. In fact, I would create another user ID and respond to the ad to see what he says. I would only confront him once you are sure of what is truly going on.
 
I'm sure I have profiles out there that even I don't remember I have. Could be the case here. As others have said, if it's from a long time ago, or he hasn't logged in in forever... I'd ignore it. If he still logs on, ask him about it. Could be he just uses it to keep in touch with a few people. I know I do.
 
I would talk to him about it or else it will probably just eat away at you.
 
It was a recent ad - November or December. Lately, he has been much more committed to our relationship than before. I'm hoping that it is because he actually wants to be serious with me rather than a lack of responses. Lately, he's actually been talking long term relationship. Time will tell. Thank you for your advice - I'll keep you posted.
 
I dated someone who kept up to date with online dating profile the whole time we were together.

He never strayed, he just used to "flirt" and talk to people, sort of just entertainment...at least I think so.

Could be just for entertainment. Maybe he's had one for a while and checks it every couple of months or something. Either way it doesn't hurt to ask.
 
shawmut101 said:
It was a recent ad - November or December. Lately, he has been much more committed to our relationship than before. I'm hoping that it is because he actually wants to be serious with me rather than a lack of responses. Lately, he's actually been talking long term relationship. Time will tell. Thank you for your advice - I'll keep you posted.
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Let's hope that the whole thing made his realize that you are the one he really wants. Given that his focus has seemed to change since then, I wouldn't be too concerned about the ad. You could either drop it or talk to him about it. The talk would be more along the lines of "I think our relationship has grown stronger in the last few months. I accidentally came across something that I don't think is a big deal now, but I think we could learn something from it to help our relationship. I found the ad that your wrote a few months ago. Can we discuss it?" Good luck.
 
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