Friendships With Ex’s And Guys You Had A Crush On

[camper]

I am interested to know if there are other guys like me who cannot maintain a friendship with either guys that I have been in a relationship with, dated or had a crush on. I know that many guys can….but I am interested to know if I am alone in not being able to do that.
thanks

 

[cabinfever]

My first live in boyfriend/lover and I remained friends and when he was dying my current husband and I took care of him.

Lots of guys I had a crush on when I was younger and almost always the crush subsided and I did maintain whatever kind of relationship we had with no problem.

 

[rareboy]

I was friends with my first partner for years until his current partner tried to fuck me over when I loaned him a substantial amount of money.

I can't think of many ex tricks or crushes that I couldn't maintain a friendship with but over time many of them died or we just drifted apart.

 

[Kahaih]

Out with the old, in with the new.

 

[LeicsDom]

I have two serious boyfriends who I am still friends with

 

[Reischfleger]

I can, they cannot. I am interested to know what people say, I never get why. I am a nice guy in or out of a relationship

 

[Kahaih]

I'm sure that in every case the major factor is who dumped who. And, then, of course, why.

 

[LeicsDom]

I'm sure that in every case the major factor is who dumped who. And, then, of course, why.

That's interesting
Both the ex's I am still friends with didn't end acrimoniously

 

[USEDCAR]

The last guy i was with he had a fling with an older lady mostly when we was together and i blocked him and cut him off completely.

I hooked up with a lot of straight guys and they usually ashamed and we stopped talking and or being friends.

I'm still cool with my past crushes. The crush goes away and they are just regular people. I had a work crush and we was cool we always talked and we got drinks after work before.

 

[NotHardUp1]

I can, they cannot. I am interested to know what people say, I never get why. I am a nice guy in or out of a relationship

I get why. Desire is a difficult tiger to tame for many. A hungry tiger has a hard time being friends with the fawn.

 

[LeicsDom]

I hooked up with a lot of straight guys and they usually ashamed and we stopped talking and or being friends.

I hook up mainly with straight guys. Part of the attraction is that I never need to be friends or socialise with them

 

[cabinfever]

I hook up mainly with straight guys. Part of the attraction is that I never need to be friends or socialise with them

Back when I was single so did I but for a different reason. It was accidental at first as they picked me up but I came to appreciate them because I didn't have to deal with guys wanting a relationship or "falling in love" and acting out on me if or when I rejected their advances.

I like casual sex to be about sex and nothing else. Also - they never asked me for a date or went on about my looks.

 

[Latimer]

My first partner is the best mutual friend my current partner (of 20 years) and I have, although he lives in a different city than we do. For about a year after I met my current partner, my old partner would come into town occasionally and we'd go off together for a long weekend and fuck. One summer the three of us went to Europe and Egypt during roughly the same period but not together, at times traveling and fucking as a threesome, but more often simply pairing off. It sounds complicated but it wasn't. Other than catching shigella swimming off the shore of a Greek island--Sifnos--drinking from a waterfall, I had a great time.