fuck buddies

[lapafrax]

What's the best way to get a fuck buddy?

You know, sex without any strings.

 

[looseliam]

Let him know you just want to screw.

It's the worst when one just wants to hook-up, and the other thinks it's something more.

 

[slobone]

This is why I have a problem with the whole concept of "one night stands". Who has a good time the first night? It's always the second time that's more fun. And maybe the third. But after that things usually go a little wonky, unless of course it's True Love.

 

[kotosal]

Let him know that you like him a lot, but only sexually, no feelings involved.
If he feels the same, just a strong sexual attraction and nothing more, you're set.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Let him know you just want to screw.

This method always works for me....

 

[MadeUpName27]

I usually drink...

They find me...

 

[Green_Man_007]

I'm fuck buddies with both of my SERIOUS ex's, and a few men I date regularly, who aren't "boyfriend material."

First, you need someone to fuck. Then, either the situation's evolving into something more signifigant than sex, or sex is all you both want. Tell them in pillowtalk, "I'm not looking for a relationship, but I'd like to see you again for more of this. Can I call you sometime?"

Chatting on the phone, it's weird but important to engage them into talking about who THEY have wanted to (or actually did) fuck recently.

If you're possessively jealous of those other faceless guys because they've had at "your man's cock," then your playmate is NOT a "fuck buddy."

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Call it a science, if you will...

Yup, keep your mind open and save the committments for laterz. IMHE, advertising for an FB via menhunt, gaydar, etc. is a good, but certainly not the best way to start a 'friendship with benefits'.

Never limit your scope too soon. Say, you'd like to meet up another guy, check out the vibe and pick it up from there. Be honest when it comes to the basics, but do not limit yourself in your interactions. m2m sex is more than a six lane highway and you want to keep all your options open.

If you hook up with a dude, whom you deem very compatible and hott, show the guts and tell him that you would want to see him again. He might reject you and/or never call again. Which is the name of the game. But you wouldn't writing it off as a 'missed opportunity'.

Treat you FBs as you would treat your good friends: with respect and lots of common sense. If a dude is a keeper, you'd hate to lose him over a clumsy attitude, wouldn't you?

SC

 

[cocktales]

Hmmmmmmmmmm,

The people I know who have fuck-buds, usually have married ones, who just want to have a "clean-fuck" without strings, you know, have sex that his wifey will NOT do; but yet have his wife and family life on the side........

My friends tell me that most of their contacts are found at "straight-bars", you know, mostly in bars located in major hotels where business-men frequent all the time, where they are there all week, alone, horney, and NO physical outlet for their horniess!!

So, why not give it a try and see how your luck is..........if you have any Gaydar capabilities, you can spot them; but BE CAREFUL of who you approach.......I know a couple of friends "do the bathroom thigy", where they strike up a conversation in the bar and when ready to "drain-the-lizard", they both go into the John together and one thing leads to another>>>>>>>>>>or something like that! lol

Good luck and "Good-Will-Hunting"!