Fuck buddy

[Stitch627]

When you are torn between:
- having a romantic relationship with a cute and sweet guy
And
- experiencing with different guys (as you are pretty inexperienced)
Is getting a fuck buddy a compromise?
More generally, having a fuck buddy, is it realistic? Or is one of the 2 bound to be hurt?

 

[hylas]

i dont see how that would be a compromise and not just the second option.

more importantly, i dont see why you feel you have to choose between the two options.

but ive had and still have plenty of fuck-buddies; they come and go, sometimes they drop out of my life and then drop back in at a later time, sometimes there is a clean break and sometimes things just fizzle out... but they have always been fun, non-messy, non-dramatic affairs. of course there is always the exception that confirms the rule.

 

[HornyHenry]

I always wanted a steady, compatible fuck buddy when I was younger. Not a "pretty-boy" or a business partner, just a fellow masculine friendly man who happens to be a bottom to go with me being a Top.
Out of the just over a hundred guys I fucked(most several times and most in both holes), none really met all the criteria(they're partnered, have issues, disrespectful, drinkers, smokers, dopers, snobbish, kink I'm not into, etc., but I did have good times sowing my wild oats in them.

 

[Seasoned]

I think the above post answers some of your question. If it is mutually beneficial the fuck buddy can be an alternative to prowling. However, everyone has a story. Lots of drama can ensue if the person is partnered, or married.

It's not like your going to a vending machine and choosing celebacy, fuck buddies, or romantic involvement. Based on desire and circumstance one could have fuck buddies and still be looking for a partner.

 

[Hotswimguy82]

If only it were as simple as a vending machine.



Actually, maybe it is. More often than not they spit your bills back out at you.

 

[KaraBulut]

Why not have a sweet guy who can be romantic but is also a fuckbuddy?

 

[theplayerking]

You have to define your terms better. To me, fuck-buddy means "repeat casual partner with no implied monogamy." Thus, having and fuck-buddy and other partners are not mutually-exclusive options. One implies the other.

However, some people take it to mean "exclusive partner without an emotional commitment." These are totally different scenarios.

 

[BottomsUp]

When you are torn between:
- having a romantic relationship with a cute and sweet guy
And
- experiencing with different guys (as you are pretty inexperienced)
Is getting a fuck buddy a compromise?
More generally, having a fuck buddy, is it realistic? Or is one of the 2 bound to be hurt?

Why can't you have the best of both world's?

Begin an open relationship with your lover, and maybe even have a steamy rough threesome!

Well, that's what I would do at least...

 

[texan_slant]

Just remember that in being fuck buddies with someone, you still have to compartmentalize your feelings and take the emotion out of it. What if you fall for your fuck buddy?

 

[hylas]

What if you fall for your fuck buddy?

then you do the same thing you do if you fall for anybody: you confess your love, and either end up in a relationship or get rejected. its really not that complicated.