Fuckbuddy

[RRRalph]

Do you have a fuckbuddy? If so, do only you have sex when you're both single or also when you're in a relationship?

 

[JOHN B]

I'd love to have a fuck buddy, one who wanted just a casual friendship AND sex. My friends basically say "thanks but no thanks" (I don't know, maybe I'm too ugly) and the few times I have had a chance at reoccuring sex with the same person I got bored with it. Mainly because they just wanted to get off and leave. Both were closeted (one "straight") and only wanted one thing (blow job, rimmed) and NOTHING else. NO kissing, NO touching, no mutual orgasm, no casual converation. It was fun at first, but got boring to spend 10 minutes every couple of weeks getting them off and then being treated like a blow up doll. "thanks, bye" two weeks later "hi, it's me,....thanks, bye" ....ect....
Maybe I'm expecting too much but it would be nice to be acknowleged as even a casual acqaintence/friend. Or at least get into the sex act a little bit more (kissing, getting naked, ...eye contact...yea, eye contact would be nice....)

 

[RRRalph]

I have had a chance at reoccuring sex with the same person I got bored with it. Mainly because they just wanted to get off and leave. Both only wanted one thing (blow job, rimmed). It got boring to spend 10 minutes every couple of weeks.

I would get bored too! I want the whole plain sex package. I had a fuckbuddy for a while. Great sex and quite often when we're both single and she developed feelings, which wasn't mutal. After a while we stopped.

 

[hermanding]

the guy i have lived with for 11 years now as of new years day - he and i started out saying we'd be fuck buddies - compatible, comfortable, etc. - and everything took on a life of its own, since neither of us were interested in a relationship.
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[nwdavis]

Fuckbuddies can be found at your local bath house.

 

[ronboy]

I had fuckbuddies when I was in college, and when I was not in a relationship. There were two memorable ones in college, which I've written about in other threads, and I did have some wild fuck buddies back before I settled down with Dave.

Since Dave came into my life 11 years ago, I have been totally faithful to him.

 

[69Strat]

Maybe I'm expecting too much but it would be nice to be acknowleged as even a casual acqaintence/friend. Or at least get into the sex act a little bit more (kissing, getting naked, ...eye contact...yea, eye contact would be nice....)

No, you're not expecting too much. Visualize what you want and it will happen. You deserve better.

 

[JOHN B]

No, you're not expecting too much. Visualize what you want and it will happen. You deserve better.

easier said than done. I have no problem visualizing it, the main problem is that they have to visualize ME. And thats not a happy sight.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Yes, I have several friends I can call when I simply want to get fucked.....and they always cum (whether in a relationship or not) when I need them to.

 

[bescincimevsim]

Yes, I have several friends I can call when I simply want to get fucked.....and they always cum (whether in a relationship or not) when I need them to.

Another vote in favour of fuckbuddies - I have a group of guys I can just call up when the mood takes me (most of the time) - we can hook up - and then just go back to whatever it was we were doing, no muss, no fuss.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Yup. Having a buddy is a fine thing.

However, with this amount of cruising going on at the moment, you want to keep only the best dudes for yourself. Having a FB just for the sake of having one, does not really work.

SC

 

[closet case]

Do you have a fuckbuddy? If so, do only you have sex when you're both single or also when you're in a relationship?

I'd like to have a "fuckbuddy", although I wouldn't call him that As someone already said, it would be nice to find a casual friendship with a guy who also liked to mess around a bit on the side. I'm not into cruising or quick hook ups at porn shops, rest area bathrooms, etc. Probably never happen for me but I always have JUB.

 

[sweet_taboo]

Having a good fuckbuddy or two (or three) keeps you from having to cruise for quick hookups in porn shop, rest area, etc......

 

[racrboi]

Have a fuckbuddy & it's a great arangement. He won't play when he's got a boyfriend, but that's OK, I respect that.

But when he's single, we have so much fun together. In fact, our playtime has always been some of the most FUN sex I've ever had. And that's precisely because we are only friends. There's no feelings or emotions or seriousness getting in the way. We can feel free to just have fun.

He's the only guy I know that I can just go up to & say "Hey, ya wanna go jack off"? & he will. If he hasn't had a cock up his ass in a while, he knows he can come to me anytime & I'll be glad to take care of him.

The thing is, we could NEVER be boyfriends...we're just too different...& we both know that. But as sex partners, we're perfect for each other.

 

[onetimething]

I have one. We're both single and would never fool around with each other otherwise. Unfortunately, we rarely every hook up anymore. Maybe once every six weeks just due to conflicting schedules. However, since we do keep in contact in the "off" times and don't really engaged in just a "fuck and run", I think our situation, while it may have started out as just fuck buddies (we met online through Craig's List looking for sex), it's turned more into a "friends with benefits" situation. Eh, semantics .

 

[closet case]

it's turned more into a "friends with benefits" situation. Eh, semantics .

That's what I'd like, a "friends with benefits" situation.

 

[kwireboi726]

I had one when I was in High School. He was in a relationship... WITH A GIRL.. while he and I were fucking. I promised not to tell anyone.. but in conversation with one of my really close friends I managed to tell him. I didn't figure it mattered... but he let it slip to my fuck buddie's exgirlfriend. (They weren't together anymore, but it had nothing to do with he and I fucking.) - Needless to say, He and I aren't friends anymore. He wasn't happy when he found out that his ex knew about what we did.

I have to say... Until college... I never could find anyone to fuck me the way he did.

 

[RRRalph]

I had one when I was in High School. I promised not to tell anyone.. but in conversation with one of my really close friends I managed to tell him. I didn't figure it mattered... but he let it slip to my fuck buddie's exgirlfriend. He wasn't happy when he found out that his ex knew about what we did.

That's why i never tell people i know about my fuckbuddies.

 

[jaxguyfl]

Ive had a fuck buddy for 19 yrs. the sex was and is still mind blowing. outside of the bedroom we really dont have anything in common but behind closed doors or anywhere we decide to have sex is incredible. we both have had partners but we still keep hooking up. i compare every man i date to him. it would take someone really special to get me to stop seeing him. the sex is "THAT GOOD"and still look just as hot as the day i first meet him.

 

[Apollux]

3 fuckbudies already, 2 of them present and accounted for. One of them started like a possible date that clicked right away but then we admitted we both where really looking forthward to a relation with someone else, like playing around until the "right one" comes. Once while I had a boyfriend somehow we ended on a treesome: me, my bf and my fb. He moved overseas and has a boyfriend now, and I consider him one of my best friends. We just spent Christmas together on a non sexual way.

The second was a trick from the net that we ended up having really good chemistry. I specially like his conversation skills AFTER we have sex, but we really don' t have feelings for each other.

The thrid is a trick from a disco that turned out to have a GREAT body and a GREAT sex actitude (something rare nowadays). We are both saying "this isn' t serious, ok?" but we both know we are half lying. You can tell from the hours we spend cuddling and peting each other after spending hours having WILL sex.