Gay? Bi? Not sure anymore...

[mikeiscool]

I made a post almost about this same thing. I hate kissing. I can do everything else, but kissing just makes me so uncomfortable. It could have been a bad kiss, or maybe you're just not into kissing like me. But I think if you're sure you really like guys, not liking kissing isn't going to make a difference in your orientation.

 

[treanir]

^ Indeed. It could be a bad kiss, but chances are you're just not into kissing. There are plenty of guys who aren't and it doesn't make them bi per se. My advice: explore a bit. Kiss another guy, kiss a girl if you want, do other stuff... you will find out what you like soon enough.

 

[HotRiot]

So I made out with a guy for the first time recently, and I've always considered myself to be gay, but after making out with this guy I'm totally questioning all of that now. It was not the stuff of dreams and his stubble really reminded me of kissing my dad when I was younger which was a total turn off. I've been thinking about maybe wanting to try kissing a girl now, but I know I'm not straight because I'm attracted to guys, and I know I could never ever go down on a woman, but kissing a guy was such a turn off. Was it just a really bad kiss? Am I over reacting? I really need some advice. Have you ever kissed a guy and just felt... repulsed?

i believe your half bi
half bi is a person who is attracted to both sex but one more!

you might be attracted to boys ! BUT you dont like evrything about them and its their lips..... you need to fine out 4 sure if you like boyz because it could be just your hormones!!! coming in, and it doesnt matter how old you are your hormones may not be fully developed

 

[Telstra]

a mouth organ can be very dirty if doesn't brush/wash properly.

 

[KaraBulut]

You can't exactly undo gayness after one bad experience. There's a whole hell of a lot more to being gay than messy kisses and scratchy beards.

Get back out there and try again.

 

[iah822003]

Have you tried kissing a guy without any stubble i.e clean shaven?

There are lots of gay guys who prefer not to get stubble burn while making out.

 

[darkdreamerx]

Get a nice cute baby face to kiss. My boyfriend is a hairy beast when he doesnt shave -- I don't mind but he does shave all over every 2-3 days. The stubble is bad when its first coming in, so its sharp as a needle. I think the rest of the advice in this topic is good advice to follow.

 

[kingkhan]

Sounds like just had a bad experience. And if you were bi you would know it becuase you would like women too. Bi does not mean you are gay person who doesn't like kissing it means you like women and men.

 

[backpacker]

I'm voting for a bad experience. Trying kissing a guy that you are into and is clean shaven. If that doesn't work, you may not be into kissing. That happens with both straight and gay guys. Just like some guys don't like to top and others don't like to bottom. I sure don't think one bad kissing experience is a reason to doubt your sexuality. You know what you are into and it's not girls.

 

[KingofFaeries]

First guy I was with made me want to vomit But for me it wasn't just the way he kissed, it was everything about him.

I'm with most others, try kissing a guy who shaved that morning. If you meet guys on the net try asking for clean shaven guys. If you meet guys through real world interaction then make it a point to rub their chins kinda lovingly before you start the tonsil hockey. If you still feel repulsed, try meeting guys who aren't into kissing.

 

[KaraBulut]

I'll try to stay away from making out with guys.

Not make out with guys? That's just crazy talk, young man.

Get out there and do some guy-snoggin'!

 

[Eagle653]

We've all had a bad sexual experience, here and there, and it didn't make any of us straight. And straight guys have had lousy lays and I don't of one of them that questioned their heterosexuality.

You had a bummer sex partner that one time. I promise you, there are plenty of great kissers and gems out there. Keep looking.