Gay Boyfriend and Str8 porn

[NephilimSin]

Honestly I believe that he was looking at straight porn. All the evidence points to him.

Anywho, if your boyfriend is a bisexual, why would that be a bad thing? Is it because of the stereotypes they are portrayed as? Or is it just simply because of him liking girls disgusts you? The whole point what should really matter is that you love him, him liking girls shouldn't be a problem. Why should that mess up your judgment about him?

It's not like the your boyfriend cheated on you with girl now, that would be different. The boy just He just looked at some straight porn no big deal. Maybe he's watching straight porn because of the straight guys on there. I know alot of gay guys that watch straight porn just because of that.

But....that was just my opinion.

My advice is just ask him up front if he's bi or not.
And......
If you are really uncomfortable with the fact that he's bi why not try to consider & understand him?

 

[G-Lexington]

There's some things I don't quite get here.

As far as I know, internet companies either offer unlimited internet access for a certain fee per month, or one pays for a certain amount of time online, and one can (presumably) pay extra to stay on longer. There may also be fees for downloading, although I'm guessing there. The type of site visited shouldn't have any bearing on the amount you owe your internet provider. Secondly, I can't imagine internet providers giving screenshots of downloaded content, but again, I may be offbase there.

But assuming all that to be accurate, what should you do? Nothing, really. Let's say he wasn't looking at straight sites, but gay sites. But say he was looking at pictures and video of things you're totally not interested in. Bondage, for instance. Or costume play. Or say he was looking at pictures of guys with much bigger dicks than yours, or guys who were much more muscular than you. Would you find any of this threatening?

The real question is this - how is your sex life otherwise? Still going strong? Then frankly, I don't see a problem. He may just get off seeing straight people have sex. As long as he's keeping you happy in bed, what he likes to look at (or think about) while jerking off is his own business. Although you might want to make him pay for the extra internet charge.

Lex

 

[tx_doc]

I don't have any advice for you. I could care less if my boyfriend was looking at naked women. Just not an issue for me.
I don't understand how the internet company would know if he was turning up or down the volume of the computer on specific clips that he had downloaded.

 

[Passiveboy]

LOl im not laughing at you but i find this pretty funny so what if he looked at str8 porn loads off gay men do. Im 100% gay i look at str8 porn form time to time its no big deal. He denied it because he embarased leave him alone yr prob making a big deal about nothing the more you go on about it the worse he going to feel ease up on him.

 

[D_Pipa]

I LOVE straight porn and Im gay, I find straight porn SO turn on

 

[jubalon]

What's wrong with straight porn? I like it just as much as gay porn, even though I'm not bi. There is some kind of turn-on to see a man fuck a woman, even if the woman doesn't do anything for me. I don't understand why some are so utterly disgusted by the female anatomy. Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that you don't have to be bi or straight or whatever in order to enjoy straight porn. If that was the case, then I would guess straight men would only look at women fondling themselves - but that's not the case, is it?

 

[backpacker]

Do you by chance have wireless net? .. maybe someones tapped in and using your connection?

Very good point. If you have a wireless router, check that you have it password encrypted. If so, change the password. You should also check your physical line to be sure that nobody has tapped in. If you are using a cellular service, there is a possibility that someone has cloned your card.

If you are absolutely positive that it's your bf looking at the straight porn, then you have a bigger problem than porn. You have trust issues in your relationship. Does your bf have a history of lying to you? Somebody who can lie in the face of overwhelming evidence, probably has some very serious issues. That type of person is often a pathological liar. My sense is that there is more going on here than you say. I wouldn't look at this as an isolated event. Look at it in the overall context of your relationship.

 

[The_Reaper]

I'm not sure what to say...

But WHO provides your internet?! I was under the assumption that ISP's weren't logging and keeping track of everything you viewed online...

 

[looseliam]

Am I the only one wondering how an ISP was able to acquire screen captures? Let alone one where one changed the volume?

 

[Chardius]

Yeah seriously, what is the orwellian crap ISP?

Can you imagine the amount of data it is to keep track of your users movements on the internet? Thats a metric ton of information.

 

[swarley]

I'm pretty sure there is no way they could get screen shots and stuff like that unless they were remotely connected to your computer... and how did you know that he turned down the volume? So there is the first problem... and the second is do you notice him looking at women in public too? I would do some more investigating before jumping to conclusions

 

[EwanSF]

My ex-boyfriend was a bit of a strange one as far as this is concerned. While I was with him, there was never any danger of him watching any straight porn, primarily because he didn't have the internet and we bought most of our porn together. But the way he talked about women, about how, aestheticly speaking, he found them sexier than men...then, not long after we split, he told me he was very close to going home with a lassie one night...I dunno...some guys have just got that wierd breeder vibe they've got to get out in the open now and again.

 

[Ohiospeedo]

This sounds very suspect to me. Where do you live? Never have I heard of an ISP able to tell the customer what sites they visited, charge extra for looking at porn, send screen caps of what was looked at, and able to tell the volume was turned up. Sounds like a bullshit story. Sorry if that offends you, but the whole story is a little weird. So he looked at straight porn...and the problem is? Maybe he likes looking at the male porn stars.

 

[darkdreamerx]

This sounds very suspect to me. Where do you live? Never have I heard of an ISP able to tell the customer what sites they visited, charge extra for looking at porn, send screen caps of what was looked at, and able to tell the volume was turned up. Sounds like a bullshit story. Sorry if that offends you, but the whole story is a little weird. So he looked at straight porn...and the problem is? Maybe he likes looking at the male porn stars.

I have to agree with this.. I'm almost positive ISP can't do that.

 

[fjancsi80]

The Internet story is simply false. I don't understand why people should make up things like that...

 

[billybob109]

that is false internet companies can not send screenshots and what videos were downloaded. only thing that could be possible is if you were using a 56k modem and a connection was made to a 900# then yeah you could be charged an extra amount.

 

[justndav]

I love watching straight porn, there are all kinds of hot, straight porn stars. Honestly watching them fuck a chick doesnt bother me at all. I have absolutely no interest in fucking chicks anymore but I do find it hot when one of the straight porn stars I find hot is pounding a pussy and squirting his load all over.