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Gay guys have you ever found yourself with a woman after comming out ?

Alive and Free

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Gay guys have you ever found yourself with a woman after comming out ? In my heart of hearts I have acknowleged I am gay and I have had my fair share of gay sex all of it without love though. Have any of you gay guys ever ended up in a relationship with a woman because you couldent emotionally find what you needed in a man ?
 
You must be addressing bi guys: as a gay guy, I can't make myself go for a woman, regardless of my luck in men.

That's me, at least.
 
for me its been the opposite. i just couldn't make that emotional connection with a woman. i've joked before, "i love women. i just don't love women."

it's odd though, but i've been hit on by women a lot more since i came out. i don't know if its got something to do with being that much more comfortable in my skin...
 
How do you justify comming out to somone when you end up with a woman and you still dont classify as BI ?
 
Alive and Free said:
How do you justify comming out to somone when you end up with a woman and you still dont classify as BI ?
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to me sexuality isn't always 'hard wired' into people. sure there are those who are explicitly gay or straight but i'm sure there are those who fall right in the middle or perhaps lean more to one than the other. but in your case does it really matter? don't worry so much about how you classify yourself. rather use that energy to find what makes you happy.
 
Yeah, right. Thats why your profile says you don't drink alcohol. Nice "story" though if you like fishy sex.
 
Ill stick with my motto "if it takes longer than 5 minutes to read, it better contain smut."

Story seems pretty farfetched. Anyways, except for fag hags (hate the term but can't think of anything better to call them), I pretty much have little relationship with women.
 
Yes, I have found myself emotionally cheating (not physically) with a woman. The thought of sleeping with her was tempting, but I love my man. But my man's lack of emotion, or rather concealment of emotion, leaves some things to be desired.
 
i just couldn't make that emotional connection with a woman. i've joked before, "i love women. i just don't love women."
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See, I love women, I can talk to them, get close and connect to them. The problem arises (or doesn't as the case may be), when they're naked. Nothing happens. Ever. Guys on the other hand, I can not only connect with and get close to emotionally, but god damn they get me hot and bothered.
 
I really need more exspoure to more gay men who share my interest. There has to be a man out there for me.
 
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