NightRaider
JUB Addict
Well here it is 2005 and my first entry this year. OK here goes.
Christmas eve 2004 after visiting, some friends and I decide to go to a gay establishment for some spirits and good company. Sitting at the bar this guy introduces himself to me and we strike up a conversation. In this conversation I learn that he was married recently divorced and had raised a child and has come out. OK now the way I understand it is that he is probably Bi considering the marriage, the kid etc. So I say to him so you are Bi right? He says No I'm gay. Knowing myself I was probably giving him the stare with one eyebrow lifted. He asks what's the matter? I smile look to wards the floor and shake my head and say Gay Men Are Amazing.
So we continue talking about whatever and were getting comfortable with one another and considering the possibility of doing something with this guy we eventually start talking about what each other likes to do sexually. Actually I was somewhat surprised of how candid he was. After him telling me what he likes orally he says you know what I really like? I ask what and he proceeds to tell me he loves to have his butt plowed. Well I feel my stare (one eye lifted) reaching his face again.
Now what the hell? Here is this masculine guy from head to toe with a deep voice who was married and raised a child and has topped his wife God knows how many times now tells me he likes to have his butt popped????
Is this some new breed of gay man that has emerged from the closets of confusion? I don't know. I have always thought that I understood gay men fairly well but this truly amazes me that someone so masculine would prefer to be on the receiving end. Amazing for sure, to me anyway. In my life I have always understood that there were Tops and Bottoms, Trans and Versatile men some fem some masculine. But this really threw me. A masculine girl topping bottom?
What next?
Anyway I really did like this guy and appreciated him being so candid. So we continued conversing for a while and I enjoyed the evening with my friends and my new found friend. Certainly a nice way to round out the years cuming end.
For those of you who wonder, Yes I gave him what he longed for. Right where he wanted it.
It truly was a Merry Christmas.
Christmas eve 2004 after visiting, some friends and I decide to go to a gay establishment for some spirits and good company. Sitting at the bar this guy introduces himself to me and we strike up a conversation. In this conversation I learn that he was married recently divorced and had raised a child and has come out. OK now the way I understand it is that he is probably Bi considering the marriage, the kid etc. So I say to him so you are Bi right? He says No I'm gay. Knowing myself I was probably giving him the stare with one eyebrow lifted. He asks what's the matter? I smile look to wards the floor and shake my head and say Gay Men Are Amazing.
So we continue talking about whatever and were getting comfortable with one another and considering the possibility of doing something with this guy we eventually start talking about what each other likes to do sexually. Actually I was somewhat surprised of how candid he was. After him telling me what he likes orally he says you know what I really like? I ask what and he proceeds to tell me he loves to have his butt plowed. Well I feel my stare (one eye lifted) reaching his face again.
Now what the hell? Here is this masculine guy from head to toe with a deep voice who was married and raised a child and has topped his wife God knows how many times now tells me he likes to have his butt popped????
Is this some new breed of gay man that has emerged from the closets of confusion? I don't know. I have always thought that I understood gay men fairly well but this truly amazes me that someone so masculine would prefer to be on the receiving end. Amazing for sure, to me anyway. In my life I have always understood that there were Tops and Bottoms, Trans and Versatile men some fem some masculine. But this really threw me. A masculine girl topping bottom?
What next?
Anyway I really did like this guy and appreciated him being so candid. So we continued conversing for a while and I enjoyed the evening with my friends and my new found friend. Certainly a nice way to round out the years cuming end.
For those of you who wonder, Yes I gave him what he longed for. Right where he wanted it.
It truly was a Merry Christmas.