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Danugh
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agree! im hard when im getting fucked.
One must keep in mind that just because its 'gay' porn does not mean the actors are gay.
A lot of heterosexual men do 'gay' porn for money, if they arent actually enjoying it than I imagine getting an erection would be difficult.
A lot of heterosexual men do 'gay' porn for money, if they arent actually enjoying it than I imagine getting an erection would be difficult.
Porn is not reality, darling.
Just put yourself in their shoes: there are twenty people in the room, scurrying about; one of them is telling you what to do every three seconds; you're at it for hours, doing it over and over, from this angle and then from that angle. Would you be rock-hard for all that? I know I wouldn't.
Just put yourself in their shoes: there are twenty people in the room, scurrying about; one of them is telling you what to do every three seconds; you're at it for hours, doing it over and over, from this angle and then from that angle. Would you be rock-hard for all that? I know I wouldn't.
gotdimples77
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I dont stay hard when I bottom unless I am jerking myself off...which gets tiring if I am in say doggie style...I still like it though...im just sensing with different parts of my body.
SilverRRCloud
I'd rather be a Sexgod:)
IMHE, most receiver dudes in real life do get hard and they stay hard, too.
First and foremost, they are men and they want to get their rocks off.
Now, porn is different as R-M rightly pointed out.
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First and foremost, they are men and they want to get their rocks off.
Now, porn is different as R-M rightly pointed out.
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Christopher123
Still a Virgin at heart
Maybe they came first before they got fucked? I dunno. Does it matter? It still feels good.
secondmonkey
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As someone pointed out the problem likely is that they aren't gay. If I was in a porno with a woman trying to do something to me, I wouldn't be hard either...
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and plus that stuff hurts but it does help if the top is giving u and not yo ass some attention
I can't claim to be an expert on straight porn, but from what I've seen, the guys are "totally solid" in straight scenes just as frequently as the tops are totally solid in gay scenes... that is, more often with high-budget production and not so much in cheapies. Since women don't have erections, per se (or certainly not as noticeably as a man), you can't tell whether or not they are "enjoying" the act as much as one would in real life, so comparing a woman to a bottom in porn is an issue of apples and oranges. And then there's the whole heterosexuals-acting-in-gay-porn issue, which I'm sure has a somewhat chastening effect on the performers.
But like I said before, you cannot judge real sexual situations by what you see in porn. Porn is make-believe, staged and artificial... it looks like sex, it makes you think about sex, it's a representation of a fantasy of sex... but it ain't sex!
In real sexual situations, you can be having a real hootenanny of a good time and still be pretty much limp (getting fucked feels really good in your ass, not your dick; and though your dick can be aroused by the activity, it's not necessary to the activity if, you see what I mean), just as you can be hard as a rock and not really enjoying yourself that much (it's very easy to give a man an erection despite his mental state, if you know how; with the proper stimulation, applied or accidental, you can keep a guy hard while torturing him or even just boring him to tears).
I've read so often about people wondering what's wrong with them that their sexual activity is different from what they see in porn: why isn't my dick that big, why don't I shoot that much, why do I get shit on my dick when I fuck someone's ass? Or else I read about people wondering why anybody would want to participate in those sexual activities because they don't look like much fun.
And the answer is that porn is not real. As soon as you find yourself having it on with another guy, especially for repeat performances, getting to know him, sharing more than just your body with him, these things become clearer. And talking to people in person or on message boards gives you a lot of this information.
But don't look for truth in a shiny package retailing for 69.99 at your local Ye Olde Adulte Shoppe.
But like I said before, you cannot judge real sexual situations by what you see in porn. Porn is make-believe, staged and artificial... it looks like sex, it makes you think about sex, it's a representation of a fantasy of sex... but it ain't sex!
In real sexual situations, you can be having a real hootenanny of a good time and still be pretty much limp (getting fucked feels really good in your ass, not your dick; and though your dick can be aroused by the activity, it's not necessary to the activity if, you see what I mean), just as you can be hard as a rock and not really enjoying yourself that much (it's very easy to give a man an erection despite his mental state, if you know how; with the proper stimulation, applied or accidental, you can keep a guy hard while torturing him or even just boring him to tears).
I've read so often about people wondering what's wrong with them that their sexual activity is different from what they see in porn: why isn't my dick that big, why don't I shoot that much, why do I get shit on my dick when I fuck someone's ass? Or else I read about people wondering why anybody would want to participate in those sexual activities because they don't look like much fun.
And the answer is that porn is not real. As soon as you find yourself having it on with another guy, especially for repeat performances, getting to know him, sharing more than just your body with him, these things become clearer. And talking to people in person or on message boards gives you a lot of this information.
But don't look for truth in a shiny package retailing for 69.99 at your local Ye Olde Adulte Shoppe.
i was just discussing this same thing with a friend the other day... he goes limp when he gets fucked... he can sometimes stay hard (or at least semi) but thats rare, and he cannot ever cum when a guy is inside him. I, on the other hand get even harder when a dick is inside me, and can almost blow my load whithout touching it! (relax, I said almost!) so yeah, it totally depends on the person!
teadrinker
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As R-M pointed out, porn is not reality. But they are selling fantasies, and porn should be even better than reality: the guys should be incredibly handsome; they should appear to be really "into" each other (lots of intense kissing), cocks should be big and hard, and they should cum in torrents at the end. How much porn measures up?... not too damned much. most of it is just boring motion with some unconvincing noises, and a bit of a dribble at the end. Hmmph!
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Soilwork
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next time just title the thread "SOILWORK I HAVE A QUESTION".
The answer is that he's not turned on.
OFten straight, tired, not enjoying it, under hot lights, 6 people standing around in the room, he's been getting fucked for 45 minutes...
The answer is that he's not turned on.
OFten straight, tired, not enjoying it, under hot lights, 6 people standing around in the room, he's been getting fucked for 45 minutes...
RationalLunacy
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Soilwork
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When we cast our movies, we don't ask the orientation of the models, we look at their pictures..
Yes, there are lots of gay men who make gay porn.
There are also lots of gay men who are passed off as straight for the people who want to see straight men having gay sex (I dont' know why they wanna see that, I think it's vulgar).
The straight guys do it because gay porn pays a LOT better for men than straight porn does.
Most of the people in porn don't get off on the sex they're having. Many of them get off on the fact that there are people watching them have sex... it's called "Exhibitionism", but I take it further and call guys who star in porn "Type P personalities". They LOVE the fact that people are getting off watching them, which is why you'll sometimes get straight men who are amazing at gay porn.. hard the whole time and putting on a great performance... it's not the sex, it's the audience.
(and dude.. if you're here and asking about something you saw in gay porn.. you're not straight. It's cool.. none of us are, either.)
Yes, there are lots of gay men who make gay porn.
There are also lots of gay men who are passed off as straight for the people who want to see straight men having gay sex (I dont' know why they wanna see that, I think it's vulgar).
The straight guys do it because gay porn pays a LOT better for men than straight porn does.
Most of the people in porn don't get off on the sex they're having. Many of them get off on the fact that there are people watching them have sex... it's called "Exhibitionism", but I take it further and call guys who star in porn "Type P personalities". They LOVE the fact that people are getting off watching them, which is why you'll sometimes get straight men who are amazing at gay porn.. hard the whole time and putting on a great performance... it's not the sex, it's the audience.
(and dude.. if you're here and asking about something you saw in gay porn.. you're not straight. It's cool.. none of us are, either.)
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Soilwork
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yeah, some do.
Fratmen never does.
Fratmen never does.