Gays giving gays a bad reputation?

[Corny]

Ever been with a bunch straight men sans their girls?
Other than sex they also have the topic of spots. But that's about it

 

[leomendez93]

Yes, straight people do talk a lot about sex and women and tits and so on. Yet, gays talk way more. No one knows about my sexuality and I have noticed that too. My personal conclusion is being gay is about emotions, self esteem (whenever we see a good looking man we want a piece of that) and it is also about the flesh. That is my PERSONAL opinion.

 

[innocentbychoice]

We're men. Men talk and think about sex 24/7. Our advantage is that we like other men who are as horny as we are, while str8 men have to deal with women who won't be as easy to give in.

 

[saymyname]

We're men. Men talk and think about sex 24/7. Our advantage is that we like other men who are as horny as we are, while str8 men have to deal with women who won't be as easy to give in.

Exactly. Plus, unlike straight men, most of us have probably spent some time hiding our sexuality, so those of us who are out might be a little bit more enthusiastic.

 

[Storybook_Man]

I'll admit, being gay/bi, sex comes easier. Being straight it doesn't come easy, unless you have lots of game .

As for gays talking about sex more, im not so sure. Im only gay/bi for the sex.

 

[Fishstix]

You're in a fetish section of a gay porn site. Of course everyone here is going to talk about sex, it's a sex message board under a sex related section. All men like to talk about sex so it's a men thing, not a gay thing.

 

[marc1236]

The worst thing I've personally experienced about 90 per cent of the gay men I've met who are the worst about being supportive of other gays who are hiv positive,very predjudice and will have nothing to do with them romantically or as a friend.I'm hiv positive for over two decades.They are worse now more than ever before !Shame on you !!!
Also,everyone should practice safe sex,whether your hiv positive or hiv negative.Some people don't know if they are hiv positive and then they have unsafe sex.Or some think some sex is considered safe,when it is not.

I'd rather be single or without any gay friends for the rest of my LIFE than be around ignorant people who treat me like an out cast or like dirt.

 

[bulge]

Do religos, popes and other ayathollas give religion a bad reputation?

 

[bulge]

Yes, the badest one ever.

 

[serious_andy]

Straight men talk about sex with men - the people they don't actually have sex with. Gay men talk about sex with the people they actually do have sex with! Fo me, the advantage of being gay is that you can actually talk honestly. It's OK for straight women to complement other women, but straight men can't do this. They pretend they can't see good looks in another man. Being gay means you can really see what you think rather than hiding it.
You do of course meet gay men who are over the top, crude, embarrasing etc, but that's equally true amongst the entire population.

 

[bulge]

Straight men talk about sex with men - the people they don't actually have sex with. Gay men talk about sex with the people they actually do have sex with! Fo me, the advantage of being gay is that you can actually talk honestly. It's OK for straight women to complement other women, but straight men can't do this. They pretend they can't see good looks in another man. Being gay means you can really see what you think rather than hiding it.
You do of course meet gay men who are over the top, crude, embarrasing etc, but that's equally true amongst the entire population.

Moreover when gays talk in derogatory terms about gays, they talk about their own kind, they only talk about themselves. Str8s talking in derogatory terms about women as they usually do, don't talk about their own kind. They talk about something completely different, which makes it a problem.

 

[slnattak]

Most people are whores. Being gay has little to do with it.

The straight guy at my last high school, captain of the hockey team. Very good looking yes, but he was a complete man slut.

The only diff is, that women are usually socialized to hold back a little more- but with two men, what's really stopping them if they want each other?

 

[GM1985]

I, personally, haven't noticed this at all, if you look at life in general, a high portion of everything we see and hear is motivated by sex. Sex is the reason we exist, from being products of it to driving on the species by performing it and reproducing.

Most social encounters from my perspective almost always decend into talk about sex, no matter the (I hate this term but I can't think of an alternative right now) sexual preferences.

and in response to this:-

The worst thing I've personally experienced about 90 per cent of the gay men I've met who are the worst about being supportive of other gays who are hiv positive,very predjudice and will have nothing to do with them romantically or as a friend.I'm hiv positive for over two decades.They are worse now more than ever before !Shame on you !!!
Also,everyone should practice safe sex,whether your hiv positive or hiv negative.Some people don't know if they are hiv positive and then they have unsafe sex.Or some think some sex is considered safe,when it is not.

I'd rather be single or without any gay friends for the rest of my LIFE than be around ignorant people who treat me like an out cast or like dirt.

I feel ashamed and enraged that there are people who react in this manner to someone with a serious condition such as HIV infection. These people should think with their brains and treat others with a bit more compassion. Fair enough some people do acquire the virus through having unsafe sex, but that is their choice, a choice that to a third party, unaffected by the sexual act, should be totally seperate from the fact that they need support for their condition!

 

[Edward Twinkletoes]

This isn't meant to cause flame wars, and I am gay as well.

Are you also the Hair Club For Men president?

...But hasn't anyone noticed that all gays mostly ever talk about is, like, sex.

Don't worry. It's all straights talk about too. The difference is all straights talk about is how evil sex is and all gays talk about is how good it is. I think gays just might have the advantage.

But why is this? How come so many gays are complete whores and will do anything just to suck a dick?

They'd love to tell you but they were all taught not to talk with their mouths full.

Any ideas?

I was thinking that you could buy yourself a pet platypus and name it Helen.

 

[kramer362]

...But hasn't anyone noticed that all gays mostly ever talk about is, like, sex.

I've noticed that all guys mostly ever talk about is like, sex.

If you're referring to the whole gay guys hooking up at restroom stalls and gloryholes stereotype well that's because some people will be ostricized for being openly gay so they try to get some wherever they can, which may or may not be sleezy random hookups. A straight guy mostly won't be ostricized for sleeping with a lot of random women, so he can do that out in the open.

 

[Edward Twinkletoes]

^ Besides, I think straight men would hook up with women anywhere if they thought their chances were better there.

 

[spencer]

perhaps we should question why men talk so much about sex. maybe if we didn't and focused more on productive things we'd all be in better monetary situations. naaah

 

[coloradobottom]

Work in a setting where it's mostly women. All they talk about is the size of cock, and how big they like it. They discuss ways to give head, and they tell who got fucked the night before, and who did it, and how many times. Worse then gay men any day.

 

[sb]

Everyone at my work is either gay or a woman and we all talk about sex equally.

Sex isn't a bad thing so I don't see how talking about it is giving anyone a bad reputation.