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Hah, yeah I know totally have a gay community nearby too...
But sure I want him to like me like he liked that other guy, but I already know that's not gonna happen so I'm not setting my expectations for that, or even considering it, I just want to be friends like I know we were capable of doing.
 
And you know you can handle a friendship but in my opinion he can't. Hence the whole mess of this thread. Please be his friend, it sounds like he needs em.
 
I would sit him down and flat out ask him why he dropped you as a friend the moment he met someone that has nothing to do with your frienship. Then I would make it clear that you found that unacceptable. if the friendship is even worth having.
 
I would sit him down and flat out ask him why he dropped you as a friend the moment he met someone that has nothing to do with your frienship.
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I don't know why everyone is belabouring the 'keeping him as a friend' aspect.

He was an avatar. Not real. A virtual pen-pal. An electronic acquaintance. There was nothing but messaging between the OP and this invisible stand-in for an actual friend and companion. They never met. They never really shared meaningful time together. And when the other person met someone else, he realized that the OP didn't really fulfill all his needs. And then his heart was crushed and he needed a confidante again. And wanted to be 'taken back'? It is so superficial and immature. MySpaceBookPageFace has made idiots of so many ordinary people.

One can waste your life wallowing in the drama of an interweb 'relationship' gone wrong, or just move on and develop healthier face-to-face, mano-a-mano contact with a real person.

One path is healthier and more fulfilling than the other.

Why waste your time?
 
Haha, that's a pretty strong opinion against online relationships/friendships rareboy, but despite what you have to say, both people that are talking or typing to eachother are still real people and can develop some sort of friendship, even if it's not a natural one.~
 
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