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racer2438

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For people in LTR/ Bf's.

How do you deal with someone hitting on your bf?. We were at a bar last night and this guy kept hitting on me and I told him 4x's no and that I have a partner. He kept saying "so what we can go in bathroom and he wont know". I said again no. As my bf comes back from the bathroom he leaves, any time my bf left for beer/drink/music he came back. He paid for our frinks and I said no thanks and did not even touch them.

I'm trying to keep my cool here and not make a scene and have not told my bf yet. My bf notice I was irratated and ask me , I told him what happened and asked me to point out the guy. I did and my bf went to him and told him to back off and took the drinks he paid for and left them on his table.

Well not more than 10 min later he came back again moore drunk than before and said he was insulted that we gave his drinks back. He ordered 2 more drinks and sent to us, we told the bar tender , who's a friend of ours that this guy was bother me. The bar tender told the guy he had to leave, on his way out he throws a drink at my bf, that did it, and my bf grab the guy and threw him out the door and the guy fell into a trash can.

The guy calls the cops, they cuff my bf and then ask witnesses what they saw and all came back that he was defending himself after drink was thrown at him.


They took the other guy in for assult and drunk in public.

That ruined our day, but I loved my bf standing up for me.......

But assholes will be assholes.....
 
I just take it as a compliment and if someone is hitting on my BF or me, just smile and accept the drinks (not normally that lucky, but sometimes!), his money, and in the end I am getting what he wants, so nice!

I would not start a fight over it, I also would not have sent the drinks back. Its a bit insult.
 
Most places I go, I know the people who work there.

I'd have him asked to leave.
 
racer2438 said:
For people in LTR/ Bf's.

How do you deal with someone hitting on your bf?. We were at a bar last night and this guy kept hitting on me and I told him 4x's no and that I have a partner. He kept saying "so what we can go in bathroom and he wont know". I said again no. As my bf comes back from the bathroom he leaves, any time my bf left for beer/drink/music he came back. He paid for our frinks and I said no thanks and did not even touch them.

I'm trying to keep my cool here and not make a scene and have not told my bf yet. My bf notice I was irratated and ask me , I told him what happened and asked me to point out the guy. I did and my bf went to him and told him to back off and took the drinks he paid for and left them on his table.

Well not more than 10 min later he came back again moore drunk than before and said he was insulted that we gave his drinks back. He ordered 2 more drinks and sent to us, we told the bar tender , who's a friend of ours that this guy was bother me. The bar tender told the guy he had to leave, on his way out he throws a drink at my bf, that did it, and my bf grab the guy and threw him out the door and the guy fell into a trash can.

The guy calls the cops, they cuff my bf and then ask witnesses what they saw and all came back that he was defending himself after drink was thrown at him.


They took the other guy in for assult and drunk in public.

That ruined our day, but I loved my bf standing up for me.......

But assholes will be assholes.....
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You can say that again...:badgrin:
 
Perhaps you and your BF need to learn to smile and move on.

Accept the drinks and raise a toast to the guy who paid for them. That isn't difficult, is it?
 
I understand all this, but when the person is rude, drunk, touching you,and forcing himself, after being asked to leave alone

thats a whole different thing. My bf was not rude, he told him nicley to we were together and to not be so rude.

And no one desires to throw a drink on someone.
 
I've only had it happen a couple times (and presumably, it's over now), but instead of getting bitchy, I just got more amused. One guy started grinding on me on the dance floor, and rubbing my nipples when I was sitting down. I just smiled and said "That's pretty sad that you're stuck doing that to somebody who isn't interested. It's a lot more fun with somebody who actually wants it done." He eventually moved on.

Lex
 
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